why i cant get her




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sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

why i cant get her  
«on: 05/08/04 at 17:54:42 »
  

??? i luv sushmita mishro of solchar itkhola ,i propose her several time but she just play with my heart .
    why all the time it happend to me?
m i so borring tjhat i cant get any gal friend.?
 
 
sanuj das
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Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 07/06/04 at 11:30:33 »
  

:) ;) :D :P :'( ;D ;D 8)


Hi,

I am sanuj living in guwahati. I am writting this letter to you so that ypu may contact me and we two would discuss a solution to this problem since the same problem have arisen to me.
 
 
laloo
Guest

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 07/06/04 at 17:41:17 »
  

Romeos I guess the girl is not the same one !! you both are after..  ;D  
 
Ahmedur
Guest

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 08/31/04 at 18:01:15 »
  

Arthur Ashe, the legendary Wimbledon player was dying of AIDS.
From world over, he received letters from his fans,
     one of which conveyed :
     "Why does GOD have to select you for such a bad disease"?
     To this Arthur Ashe replied:
     The world over --
     5 crore children start playing tennis,
     50 lakh learn to play tennis,
     5 lakh learn professional tennis,
     50,000 come to the circuit,
     5000 reach the grand slam,
     50 reach Wimbeldon,
     4 to semi final,
     2 to the finals,
     When I was holding a cup I never asked GOD "Why me?".
     And today in pain I should not be asking GOD "Why me?"
Pls answer to my question if any.
 
 
mrinmoyb
mrinb

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/02/04 at 12:45:26 »
  

What >:(How dare she is to refuse your proposal....don't be upset...u cannot be boring...the only reason behind her answer cud be her ignorance about you....let her know you first....she'll surely like you my dear.....  
 
jhimlee
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Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/13/04 at 05:49:40 »
  

Dur...oi jante,jante...he'll get old.. ::) ::) ::)
Tar chaite.... :-X :-X :-X he...........sushmitar maa-ke
ektu Maashimaa-ta deke potanor chestha koro :-/
Taholeo jodi sushmitar mon-naa-gole.... :'( :'(
or bonke nie ghurte jao....toffee,icecream....khilao......
AR...eteo jodi kaj naa hoy  >:( >:( >:( >:( to....
Last one ha...... ;) ;) ;)
to.....to....phir BAPPI LAHERI-r gana sunao... :-* :-*
           ???kon-sa gana???? ???
        DE-DE PYAR DE PYAR DE
        PYAR DE-RE HAME PYAR DE... :D :D :D
 
 
mrinmoyb
mrinb

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/13/04 at 13:37:40 »
  

Thats an equally gr8 idea...there's a saying, "great people think alike".... ;) ;D....  
 
Bikash
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Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/17/04 at 18:00:25 »
  

Yaar lage raho... Mai to bolu chu... Sushmita kya Aiswariya vi mile gi... bas Lage raho... ;)  
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/19/04 at 12:14:43 »
  

re yar lage to rahu par kabtak?  ??? ??? ??? ??? ???

  esa na ho ki oh jab mujha mila maya budha ho jau or barmala dalna sa pahla hi bhagwan ka ghar chala jau
                esa kasa hosak ta ha yar
 
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/19/04 at 12:28:17 »
  

HI THERE
 SPESIALLY SANJU DAS ,JHIMLI,& MRINMOY I XPACTING SOME MORE 4M UR SIDE . OK SANJU PLZ GIVE UR EMAIL ID TO ME
 
 
mrinmoyb
mrinb

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/19/04 at 15:33:58 »
  

I understand your prblm Shudhu_tomar_jonyo.....it hurts when we don't get response from the most loved ones...but, as i said you earlier, we always do a mistake....as a matter of fact, we never think about the mental status of the other person...life is full of complexity n everyone keeps on gyrating around those......one possible solution to your mentioned issue can be this:

Meet her personally(i know that u already might have tried many times).
Even if just for once...

Meet her like a friend not like a boy friend or would be hubby...
We guys always do this mistake....we always try to jump into things all of a sudden without knowing the openion of the other person....
Tell her that you just want to be a friend....nothing else.....
Once she agrees to this try to implement this stratagy...

1) Keep calling her on regular intervals, without irretating her

2) Try to make her free with yourself jus' like a friend.

3) If possible call her to your house during some ocassions like puja, birthday etc..

4) If you have a sister who can be of your help that would be really gr8...

I'll tell you some more tips.....
 
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

thanx  
«on: 09/19/04 at 17:22:33 »
  

hi mrinmoy thanx 4 ur advise.actually im in mumbai now a days so the q of meat with her doesnt arise .  
 
nayna
nayna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/20/04 at 04:55:00 »
  

Tomar naamta change koro "sudhu_tomar_jonna"... ???
Bhaboto jodio sushmita tomar kache aashe..tomake dakte gie
barbar eki kotha bolte hobe...or jonneto kichui thakbena :'(
Hoyto ei bhoyei palie bedacche !!! ::) ::)
 
 
mrinmoyb
mrinb

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/20/04 at 12:40:16 »
  

Aare Nayna...tumi ekhane o aacho....dekho bhai....aamar tips gulo pore kharap peo na...kaaron...i was jus' tryin to help this guy....  
 
laloo
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Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/21/04 at 00:14:41 »
  

Sudhu_tumar_jonna ::: jaa korar tara tari koro bai noile beta tumi shayar ooia rasta ghura aarambho korba nei with shayri :

Zamaane ne humko deewana bana diya,
zamaane ne humko deewana bana diya,
banna tha jiska baap uska mama bana diya.  ;D
 
 
mrinmoyb
mrinb

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/21/04 at 12:56:36 »
  

Thik koiso bondhu...dosh o dosh paiso....its thik je "Shobure mewa fole", kintu kunu kunu shomoy shobure mewa pochi o jae...er laagia...it's not necessary that the same philosophy will hold good n effective everywhere....my friend, it's the age of situational approach.....  
 
piyali
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Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/24/04 at 14:17:31 »
  

suno ra ba sudhu_tomar_jonna,

    tomar nam ta to monoloe khub chinachina lager ba ita jodi
   sob thik thake ta hoile to tumara sushmitar songe kita hoisa janar itcha thakbo re ba ,jode tair r kaur loge biya na hoi  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
 
 
arua
arua

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/24/04 at 19:16:07 »
  

oi oi aamaro same problem re ba sudhu_tomar....aami life o shamanyo je koyta(beshi na aakhon obdi 19 ta) meyere bhala paisi tara shob furut furut koriya uriya onyo gacher dale geche giya....aami okhon khali matho boiya gan gai...tumra parle aamareo ektu advise diyo...aar kunu sundari jodi aamare shomobedona janain taile bro badhito hoimu....
                                            iti arua no. 1
 
 
amit pal
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Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/24/04 at 19:29:37 »
  

;)sala sushmita ra paila ami o nahoi ekbar pram o porigalam ona oi  susdhu_tumar_jonna taira recantly dakhso ne kita----------- hoi gase sala dakhlau mona loe ufff r koitam parlam nae  
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/24/04 at 20:03:58 »
  

ora ba arun ami ra ba okhon sobar kotha rakhiya sushmita ra bhuliya ra ktar loge lagi laese eta bhaala na thaklao ,atleast dukho to temporaraley bhulai disa.bucho ni ra ba  
 
ripon+chakrabarty
ripon+chakrabarty

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/26/04 at 18:19:55 »
  

hello topic builder,mrinmoy & otheres
 today i m giving u one interesting info that the gal or love of ur life (for whome u start such a huge topic ).she does not only reject u bross , i was also fall flat in her trap . but when i propose her she told me that she was engaged with some other (joy)4m tarapur . is this info enough 4 u dear . & one very imp q where u stay in mumbai coz i m also 4m mumbai .plz give re its ripon
 
 
mrinmoyb
mrinb

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/27/04 at 14:33:01 »
  

Bhala diso reba 'RIPON'.....but, as a matter of fact, i don't have any such issue...i was only trying to help "Shudhu_tomar_jonyo....i consider myself very fortunate in that regard....  
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/28/04 at 14:33:00 »
  

oi ra ba mrinmoy ,

amare dukho dilae  ??? :-[ :'(lo e batar jibone o tarakki hoito nai .halar hala jode korsos ou ta golafatai ya chilae bar ki dorkar  :'(.

  atleast e dukhor some tumi u ra ba mrinmoy amar e sahos dilae so ebar dakho kita hoi
 
 
mrinmoyb
mrinb

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 09/29/04 at 16:45:53 »
  

Aare reba Shudhu_tomar_jonyo....aami aasi tumar loge....kita oilo...tumar Dream Girl er kichu nuton khobor paailae ni....laagia thako...kintu beshi deri korio naa...  
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
Guest

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/01/04 at 15:10:21 »
  

mrinmoy ami to taira phone korselam goto tuesday ta tair babai udhaisla .ami koise " hello sushmita ka ektu dake din na"
tair babae koin  >:" sushmita namer kau ekhano thake na"
??? :o okhon kowsain kita kora jae ba ???
 
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/06/04 at 19:22:27 »
  

aicha tumra sobai ra akhon ek ta prosno roilo .plz mon diya
suneo .sunchi tair biya  hoi jaibo  :'( :'(.

  okhon tumra kita mona koro ami kita nuton maye niya settled hoi jai tam ne (jata amar lagiya osombhob) na biya na koriya sara jeevan amna u katai detam tair chintai
   
 
 
asiti
asiti

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/06/04 at 22:55:33 »
  

Ekta kaj kortai paro..[B]JONNA[/B]....

Kayam Churna tin chamush proti rait khaibai, gorom panir loge.

Aste aste dekhbai...sob dukkho bhuli gechho.
 
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/07/04 at 12:30:57 »
  

aicha ra ab tumi ita sikh lae kan tone :P  
 
mrinmoyb
mrinb

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/07/04 at 12:52:04 »
  

Dekho...Shudhu_tomar_jonna....ekjoner bia tokhon e aatkani jae jokhon mia-bibi both raaji thake....tumar bela ita koa jae naa....now, you've got only one way out n that is to go n approach her directly...leave the rest part to your fate....got my dear....com'n cheer up now....  
 
another sushmita
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Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/08/04 at 05:27:50 »
  

Ekta advise tumaar laagiya- sudhu tomar jonne- eei 11th hour e kuno filmi approach loio na ba, like suno suno duniawaalo....., baa mei aaj sabke samne chikh chikh kar kahta hoon....., baa eei shadi hargis nahi ho sakta...... itayadi type er approach, u will hurt that girl in quite a fews ways which you cannot even anticipate rite now
so my suggestion to u is- go by the philosophy - yeh nahi to woh sahi, woh nahi to koi aur he sahi, koi aur nahi to uski bahan hi sahi.
Love and affection are relative trems,- after u overcome this grief, u will find another one, brush up ur ashiq mentality, tab lagega, sushmita kya thi, wow! yeh to aasmaan se tapki hai, just to make my life.

So cheer up
 
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/08/04 at 14:11:21 »
  

acha ya to ma samajh he gaya ki ya nahi to koyi or e sahi


TO KAYA OH TUM HI HO JIS KI MUJHA TALSH THI  ;) ;) ;) ;)
ANOTHER SUSHMITA
 
 
sushmita
sushmita

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/08/04 at 20:55:01 »
  



[TO KAYA OH TUM HI HO JIS KI MUJHA TALSH THI  ;) ;) ;) ;)
ANOTHER SUSHMITA]


no sudhu tomar jonne its not that sushmita, so dont misunderstand the situation and rekindle ur romantic candle thinking -tumne ne pukaara aur ham chale aaye.........,
just heed to my suggestion  :)
 
 
monohar
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Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/09/04 at 17:51:05 »
  

bhai hokol/bhoin hokol,
            Oto motamot porhiya matha ghurai jai. Tobe shudhu_tomar_janya bandhure koi, jokhon Mumbai gechhogiya tokhon 'ek changla porii boga. mumbai modhe jasto changla porri hotat, kai.... baro kya?'. Marathi girls make beri good house wives. Sutarang bewda hoiya ghhurar cheye uddeshya loiya ghuro. Aar jodi ektu marathi koitai paro taileto aar koiya laabhh nai. Majhe majhe ektu maal chhaal khaiyo, dekhbai dukhkhota kemon mitha mitha lager. :-* :-* ::) :
Iti monohar
 
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/09/04 at 19:02:54 »
  

bhai mono hor thanx 4 ur kind support & thanx to sushmita also .listen mr monohar u might thing i m very happy in mumbai
where very beautiful gals r there byt dear they r not sushmita .

      here gals r beautiful & frankly speaking sexy to & as a normal guy i also want see them , but its only time pass yar .

       here in mumbai u gat a beautiful gal  just by spending some bucks  on her ,but its not luv my dear , i just want luv .
 
 
monohar
Guest

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/10/04 at 03:08:35 »
  

Aare bhai,
             Tumar lakhan amaro ek Panchali aachhil. Teu kita kora jai. Aami koimu koimu korte korte ek hero marka puai amar Panchalire amar mukho punch mariya amar sapnor panchabati bhangiya loiya gelo giya. Ami o koilam ek Panchali gechhe te kita hoilo, north easto joto jaat achhlo hokkol jator loge line lagailam. Mizo, Naga, Khasiya, Garo, Asomiya, Shylekati [Silchori jara koilkatat thakoin], Nepali kunta baad rakhlaam naa. Pore hou ghuriya phiriya jokhon Pune gelam. hono ekkebare khati marathi egu pailam. Ekhon aami Panchalir kotha prai bhuli gechhi. Majhe majhe mono hoi, kintu kita kora jai. Ekhon je achhe boro maya koriya rakhe. Aar hibai Panchalir brain tumor hoiya bule paralysed obostha.
 Bhaire jeta hoi ota aamrar bhalar lagi. Uparwalai janoin tumar lagi kita bhala hoibo.
  Anek sneha bhalabasa janai,
       Monohar
 
 
mrinmoyb
mrinb

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/12/04 at 12:27:57 »
  

Bhai shudhu_tomar_jonna....taara thik oi koise....kintu aamer kotha ta o bhul naa....jodio oneker bhala laagto nae...  
 
sushmita
sushmita

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/12/04 at 20:17:21 »
  

Tomar kotha ta kharap asil na mrinmoyb, but boro beshi filmi approach asil, real life e ita korle, gonodhulai kopalo thakto paare............ ;D

tai STJ re ekta majha majhi raasta dekhaisi

AAR STJ have u heard this saying-
If u love somebody set her free,
if she comes back, she is yours,
and if she doesnt, she never was yours!!!  :-/
 
 
mrinmoyb
mrinb

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/14/04 at 13:10:34 »
  

ae kotha ta ekta hindi cinemat o shunchilaam...naam oilo...
"Ishq vishk pyar wyar".....bhala koiso rego bhoin....
 
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/14/04 at 16:41:01 »
  

thank u all

    suno ra ba kalke ami phone koriya janta parce ja tair ja chele tar loge aschil okon jhogra choler r biyar kotha ta o thik nai .ita suniya ami tair miosatto bhai ra phon koriya hints dilai se jodio ha amar bondhu kintu tar loge amar i somporke kuno mat kotha hoisel na age .

 jane na kita hoi bo sob uporwala r upra
 
 
mrinmoyb
mrinb

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/16/04 at 12:59:47 »
  

Laaiga thakle maaiga khaite laage na re.....surely you gonna get success....consistency can change the world around you...only confidence and attitude matters....but the most important thing is to create a place in her heart, my dear....if she is with you...rest can be managed.....always keep hope...and dont sit quite thinking that things will go right on their own......kunu kunu shomoy filmi approach o kajo laage...what matters, is your way of looking into things....  
 
sushmita
sushmita

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/18/04 at 21:37:28 »
  

Yeah Mrinmoyb prefers the filmi approach I guess, but remember sudhu tomar jonne - do what you think is right, not what we think is, coz mainstage e tumi aso, pocha tomato tumar gaaye porbo if things go wrong, aar if things go great then mrinmoyb will take all the credit aar tumar biyar rossogolla khaite jaibo giya (kharap paio na mrinb  ;D), so look at the risk to benefit ratio talk to her if u get a chance thats gonna help u before taking any step, aar enjoy the Pujaas ,

what will be will be.  :)
 
 
asiti
asiti

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/18/04 at 22:08:34 »
  

[B] "Jonna"[/B] bhai

Mrinmoy e tumare gachho tuler re ba.... ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

 
 
sushmita
sushmita

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/18/04 at 22:27:11 »
  

amar mono hor asiti da,
Mrinmoy tar formula try korer sudhu tomar jonne re gunea pig baanaiaa, hit hoile nije apply korbo  aar flop hoile will work onfurther modification.  ;D
 
 
ravi
ravi

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/18/04 at 22:30:09 »
  

ekjone gachho tule, ekjone niche namay, jonnare loia dekhi tanatani shuru oi gelo.
tumi bhai nijor buddhite cholo, aar naile bipod. Oboshyo sobe jokhon dira, te aamio ekta buddhi dilai. Tumi reba tair loge personally dekha koro, aar dil khulia koilao. Tai jodi raji oi to bhalau, aar jodi raaji na oy te angur phol tok koia bombaia lodki dhundo.
 
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/19/04 at 20:25:39 »
  

ajke abar tair barit phone korselam tair babae dain na .r bar bar khale kun cele dore ba na jane chele koi thakiya aigalo tair barit

      :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o
 
 
monohar
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Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/24/04 at 05:51:40 »
  

Bhai STJ,
            Je jetau kouk, aami to lal batti joler dekhiar. Babai deina uttar aar pua egue dhore. Tumi kita bujho ? Bodyguard lagai dilo ni ? Tumi re ba sheshmesh ekta chesta korilao - ekbaar giya dekha kori lao. Maiyai jodi satti satti bhalaa pai tobe bhagai loiya jao giya aar jaibaar age Arunachala giya biya kori lao.  Eeta jodi naa hoi tobe mone rakhiyo phool bahut gacheu phhoote.
Monohar
 
 
subhadeep
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Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/25/04 at 15:56:22 »
  

hi,
   after going thru ur problem i would like to tell u just one little simple thing that...love is something that we cannot put into someones heart....and the same way if u luv someone or someone luvs u nothing can change it either...i feel till now what ever u have done to express ur feelings for her is more than enough and i am sure she too must b aware of it..so dont feel bad...b positive...theres a saying.."if u luv a person let the person go,if she comes back she is urs but if she dosent...she was never urs"so if she too feels something for u..dont u worry..oneday she will realise and come to u,so keep luving her with ur heart and soul without expecting anything..thats what true luv is....and i wish u all the luck that may god fulfill ur wishes...take care.....
                  luv and wishes
                   subhadeep
 
 
SDB
Guest

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/26/04 at 16:50:11 »
  

hoi-bo lagi thako, amaro hoisay
[quote author=sudhu_tomar_jonna link=board=0420&num=1084029882&start=0#0 date=05/08/04 at 17:54:42]
??? i luv sushmita mishro of solchar itkhola ,i propose her several time but she just play with my heart .
    why all the time it happend to me?
m i so borring tjhat i cant get any gal friend.?
[/quote]
 
 
sudhu_tomar_jonna
sudhu_tomar_jonna

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 10/28/04 at 01:20:43 »
  

thanx 4 ur nice support  
 
gumsum
Guest

Re: why i cant get her  
«on: 11/29/04 at 16:55:33 »
  

::) Hi friends!

           hope u all r not irritated to read to another one of those......bla bla bla.But folks i need some tips from all u people in love.Hope u will all feel free to help me.

Point is im in love but could'nt express the same to her.Both of us r in b'lore.we met in train n guess what it was love at first sight(better be fair atleast frm my side).problem is i keeping up the contact but without much luck.She as i have diagonised might be under some form of pressure(for her behaviour).Now guys n ofcourse gals plz tell me how to proceed with my love story.

Hoping 4r ur suggestions?   Gumsum ???  ???
 
 
 
 

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