freaki
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when you want to hurt the ones you love. why?
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12/14/04 at 02:19:49 » |
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when do you feel like hurting other people?
what is this feeling?
when everything and everyone around you has turned there back on you.
do you ever fel like being alone, away from your family and friends, because there always on your back.
do you ever feel like doing things to hurt them so that they can see what you are feeling and what you are going through.
what is this feeling, and why can a person who loves there family to bits, a person that would give up there life for there family would think of such a thing.
what is the feeling, and what starts the evil thoughts.
t/c
freaki
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wounded
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Re: when you want to hurt the ones you love. why?
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01/04/05 at 06:32:42 » |
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I grew up in a house of fighting, name calling, I have 2 sisters 1 brother. My parents argued, me and my siblings argued, my mom chose favorits, my sister and brother. We were called names by my mother...such as bitch, stupid ect. Only sometimes was there hugs and kisses. Now I have a husband and a teenage son. I love them both more than anything, but I get angry for any little thing, I have blind rage. I want to hurt my husband so that he can feel how i hurt, my son i would never hurt, but he tries to brake up the fights, and I will push and hit and rip clothing just so that he will let me by at my husband, so then he ends up getting hurt. After its all over I feel very hurt, with drawn very sad and want to kill myself for hurting or wanting to hurting the ones i love? I always say never again but it always happens again. It doesn't help that my husband does thing that he knows will get me angry, but do I need to go into a blind rage? and how can I get help...before its to late.
[quote author=freaki link=board=0011&num=1102967389&start=0#0 date=12/14/04 at 02:19:49]
when do you feel like hurting other people?
what is this feeling?
when everything and everyone around you has turned there back on you.
do you ever fel like being alone, away from your family and friends, because there always on your back.
do you ever feel like doing things to hurt them so that they can see what you are feeling and what you are going through.
what is this feeling, and why can a person who loves there family to bits, a person that would give up there life for there family would think of such a thing.
what is the feeling, and what starts the evil thoughts.
t/c
freaki
-X-
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mrinmoyb
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Re: when you want to hurt the ones you love. why?
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01/04/05 at 12:52:41 » |
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Yes, friends...many a times we feel down, frustrated, being neglected because of indifferent attitude of our near and dears who carries immense importance in our life. |
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freaki
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Re: when you want to hurt the ones you love. why?
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01/05/05 at 00:28:53 » |
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hey wounded u need to control ur temper, do u want ur son 2 grow up having the life u did, u dont want to lose what u got, if u do, u will never forgive urself, if u get into an arguement with ur husband just walk away, and tell him that there is no point in argueing because u will not slove anything, but try talking to eachother, try understand one another have truat in one another, then you will be able to talk to eachother like mature adults, fighting will only makes things worse, if ur son see's that the both of you have stoppped argueing then he will happy an his mind will be at rest, he will do things that every other teenagers do, and will do well in his studies, if u argue and fight and he see this then this will effect his studies, and could lead him getting into the wrong crowd and people, god forbid that happens.
well take care |
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mon_amar
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Re: when you want to hurt the ones you love. why?
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01/12/05 at 06:12:40 » |
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Love and hate are the sides of same coin...because u hate a person whom you love most when he or she hurts you.
But there are other unknown reasons as well...lying deep inside our hearts sometimes even unknown to us...
A song sung by Enrique describes a pain in love
Maybe i just wanna touch you
Feel you warm inside again
Maybe i just wanna hurt you
The sweetest pleasure is pain
I don't know why why but i love to see you cry
I don't know why why it just makes me feel alive
Are you coming... to the moment
When you know your heart can break?
I'm inside you. I'm around you
I just wanna hear you cry again
I don't know why why but i love to see you cry
I don't know why why it just makes me feel alive
You don't know how much it hurts
To watch you fall asleep
When you're in my arms
And if this dies before the morning comes
I wanna run away, i wanna run away
I don't know why
I don't know why why but i love to see you cry
I don't know why why it just makes me feel alive
:)
I feel somtimes this song is very true
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mrinmoyb
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Re: when you want to hurt the ones you love. why?
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01/14/05 at 13:18:55 » |
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[quote author=mon_amar link=board=0011&num=1102967389&start=0#4 date=01/12/05 at 06:12:40]
But there are other unknown reasons as well...lying deep inside our hearts sometimes even unknown to us...
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Well said...how true that is.... |
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freaki
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Re: when you want to hurt the ones you love. why?
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01/17/05 at 18:08:49 » |
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ermmmmmm, true, mon_amar i couldnt pick a better song my self. good one.
t.c
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mon_amar
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Re: when you want to hurt the ones you love. why?
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01/27/05 at 15:18:24 » |
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Thanks Mrinmoy & Freaki...
This is a good topic....everyone faces this question atleast one time in his life. |
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freaki
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Re: when you want to hurt the ones you love. why?
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01/29/05 at 00:51:20 » |
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that is true that everyone does face this topic, but i reckon that people arent brave enough to answer. they will one day, coz someone else will ask. |
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Didibhai
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Re: when you want to hurt the ones you love. why?
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02/23/05 at 08:04:23 » |
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Hello everyone!
Its very easy to get angry and say things to the one you love most. My philosophy is, don't talk when you are angry, as regrets later aren't enough to mend the damage done. Its not easy I know. Don't let your mind overpower your brain, because when one is angry, its the mind that overtakes brain activity. Take a deep breath through your nose, hold it for as long as possible then let go slowly through your mouth. The rush of oxygen to your brain will slow down the aggression part your brain and calm you down. Reflect on what happend and why? things get that bad, whether within a relationship or family, then try to communicate with each other. One of the main setback when one is hurt is the lack of communication that leads to misunderstanding.
Hope it will help someone! well that's didibhai for you.
take care.
N.B. oh please, do not argue in front of children, its the worse experience in childhood. The psychological damage it causes to your child may have long term consequences. |
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