Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu

Author  Topic: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?     Debojit_Ghose (Guest) Guest Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/11/01 at 00:12:05 »         Many a time we come across Silchari ladies speaking amongst themselves in "kelu"  Those residing outside are prone to this disease.I call it a disease as becase in a bid to hide their originality, the ladies take up this easy way out .Outside Silchar, when you come across a girl who you know belongs to Cachar and she too knows of you belonging to the same place, yet prefers to converse in "kelu".   Are the ladies afraid to speak in their mother tongue ?  As for us boys, being far away from home makes little difference as to the verbal mode of communication we resort to.Everywhere I've been I've found Sylhetis and we had fun .Even now I'm surrounded by 2 Sylhetis though they belong to Shillong.Please , if anyone of you can, persuade the ladies not to try wearing "mayurer pekhom"          Debojit     silchari (Guest) Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/11/01 at 02:24:03 »    Dear friend , Its by tradition silchari girls try to talk in kelu ( though sometimes its half kelu and half sylheti ... like aami toke kuthay kuthay tukai ni ...  ;D ) no matter where they are ... And esp if they known there is atleast someone overhearing them  ;)   Help us to know what the reasons behind this  8) Comments pls ... ( we all know silcharis are good in passing comments  ;D )     Silcharor Pua Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/11/01 at 03:09:48 »    I think Silchari girls think if they speak in KELU to impress GUYS...I have seen a few girls changing from Sylethi to Kelu when a GUY walks by... But I personally find it very entertaining...epsepically when theymis KELU with SYLETHI... Have heard the daughter in law asking her mother in law in the presence of a stranger.... "Ma, Chhele Kothay?" and the Mother in law goes "Kotay ni?, te aagto mane koy.... ;D ;D ;D"     Debojit Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/12/01 at 04:46:24 »    :D :D   BHALA KHOTA KOILAE...........  MAIYA RA KUNTA MAATE NA KENE ......... ?   DORAIRAE NA KITA ? DORAIYO NA GO MA HOKOL.............    :P   KINTU EKTA KOTHA TO THIK JE KELU TUMRAAR MUKHO MANAE NA................                       Debojit Ghose     OmritaBhattacharjee Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/19/01 at 03:52:30 »    Few days ago in Kolkata I met a friend of mine and was overwhelmed not by the fact only that i met my friend but also for the fact that after a long time I will speak syllheti with her. but when i asked her kitare kirokhom asos? she immediately replied 'bhalo, tui kemon'. ha haha the same happened not only with a girl but to a so called g.cian. named saurov. he started gossiping in kelu when i asked him tumi kelu kene matrai? he replied actually ekhane thakte thakte obhyesh hoye geche aar loke sunle hase. are beta tor matri bhasha matle kar bapor aai jai? shutorang silcharor pua ra baire gelei kelu mate though the girls prefer it even in Silchar also.     Reality Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/22/01 at 07:59:57 »    Think deeply !! and be honest .... u will have the answer. But it is certain that Bengalis will never hesitate to speak in Bengali (U may prefer to call it 'Kelu') wherever in the world he goes.   The rich heritage of Bengali language & literature (Unfortunately the words when spoken will sound to u'r ears as 'Kelu') gives necessary confidence to its speakers. Anyway, I think it is a individuals choice to speak in whatever language or dialect he/she desires. It is a sign of intolerance and narrow-mindedness to infringe that.     Third eye blind Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/23/01 at 08:28:42 »    >:(Tumi eta kita arombho karlay re ba?Please don't make language a barrier....everyone is free to choose their communication medium. I thik u got it! Thanks in advance.     heta ali Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/29/01 at 11:15:07 »    tui kita sab maiyar tekha laiaya baochos ni, kunu maiya jadi kelu kota koi, tor baper kita jaar, na sunle hoilo. kano tula lagaiya thakis. jadi kelu koite na parash, te halar hala sunosh kene. bujosh ni kishu. aar maiya manush jemon dekte sunar hoi, aman mishti mishti kelu katha koile aro bhaal lage. tui halar hala , kachubando giya boi thak,     Palash Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/09/01 at 02:08:42 »    :o ::) ::) Gya Jigao maayara re khene kelu maate. ne ways we cant blame the same only to the females. the same applies to many guys 2     Really? Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/09/01 at 03:18:57 »    Turn ur yhinking caps on and start thinking. ada jol khaiya lagi jaao. ekdin na ekdin biroiboi kene sylheti purira kelu koi. personally, i believe that they want to have an air of superiority around them. and in the process they try out many things. kintu bondhu ekta kotha achhe na "jotoi catwalk koro na kene kawi, tumi mayur hoite partai na". the faster they understand that, the better.     BISHU Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/21/01 at 06:31:34 »    they are so fascinated by kela(not the assamese version) that the love to eat kela dream kala and obviously speak KELU ;D     bishu Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/21/01 at 06:33:33 »    [quote author=BISHU link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=0#10 date=10/21/01 at 06:31:34] they are so fascinated by kela(not the assamese version) that they love to eat kela dream kala and obviously speak KELU ;D [/quote]     TOMARJONNO Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/21/01 at 10:26:46 »    may b the idea behind it is to upgrade themselves....as in comparison the calcutta girls  ;) ;)are much smarter than them..i'm sorry to say this but thats the fact..may it is because the get city exposure which grooms them , but i hv seen girls from silchar coming back from calcutta a nd speaking sylheti... esp in their homes na hoile to baap /maye chinte parto nay.. ;D ;D ;D     rajyashree dutta Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/16/01 at 12:49:35 »    hi hey u guys why r u making fun of sylethi gals ???? i am also a sylethi and i am proud of my mother tongue .all gals r not the same dear. kita thik koilam nani. i am at present in silchar and feel that silchar is the most lovely place on earth :)     Aakash Aakash Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 01/13/03 at 09:34:41 »    Yes Mr. Debojit. Naya saal mubarok hoo. Naya saal mein kuch aacha soocho yaar. What we R going to achive by repeting the same old story. I am fully agree with the friends that the same sentense is also aplicable with we boys also. Sirf Ladki woh koo bool key kuch faida nehin yaar. Hope that in this new year all my friends will try to do something else. Debu...     ddas Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 01/14/03 at 19:47:54 »    We all should feel the richness of Bengali language.Not only sylleti but everyone of bengali community should upgrades their spoken language to avoid the dilution of the actual meaning.Nodoubt every one should respect their own mother language ,but it also does'nt mean to deviate from the actual standard meaning.Instead of criticising any one we all should encourage every one to speak whatever in form they like but it should correct and bear the actual meaning.                                                         Guest     asiti asiti Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 01/15/03 at 04:25:23 »    Yes. I support you. Let us not much delve into the reasons behind Sylheti girls speaking in Kolkata Bengali or Sylheti boys speaking in Delhi type Hindi [it is most often seen]. Main issue is upgrading our thought processes.     Aakash Aakash Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 01/15/03 at 09:45:40 »    Good Comments Dear Friends  ddas & asiti. Main issue is upgrading our thought processes. Yes everyone should try to upgrade himself or herself , then what's wrong with the Sylleti girls? Aren't they supposed to tale part on the same race ? Let them try to upgrade them & if they can achive the target that is also fine.     xbilpari xbilpari Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 01/19/03 at 07:15:47 »    bcos they r lot smarter than us. vive la syletty femme. :P     Tumi Amar Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 01/20/03 at 07:55:22 »    [quote author=rajyashree dutta link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=0#13 date=11/16/01 at 12:49:35] hi hey u guys why r u making fun of sylethi gals ???? i am also a sylethi and i am proud of my mother tongue .all gals r not the same dear. kita thik koilam nani. i am at present in silchar and feel that silchar is the most lovely place on earth :) [/quote] Hello Madam, How are u? I have searching you for a long time. ::) ::) ::)I mean to say my "AATMA" have been looking for you to talk to you. I am very happy to know that you are at Silchar. Can we have a dating please ;) ;) ;). If yes, mail me soon. Waiting for u eagerly. (sylheti Jindabad) :D :D :D :D Yours forever Tumi Amar     Nita Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/10/03 at 20:59:06 »    :D hey guys, ami ekta sylheti meye but not 4m silchar :-[ ami shillong thakiya belong kori but u know guys its the koolest site i have ever found. silchar.com e dhukle shab nijer mono hoy. ami kelu prefer kori na. ami nijere sylheti koite gorbo bodh kori. i think meyera kelu koy showoff korar laiga je tara kelu jane  ;), are baba kelu to amra shobe u jani. most of the times ami notice korsi je silheti baaf maar kelu baicha.. jokhan oi pure silheti manush e kelu koite jay tokhan duita mix hoiya "KELETI" hoi jay as for eg "tui ki tukacchish?" hahahaha ;D ;D ;D. khamokha keleti koiya manushor kache lajja pawa thakiya baba kichu na kowa e bhala. kita thik nani. but 1 thing, tumra question ta change korle bhala hoy.. 4m "why silheti girls prefer to speak kelu" thakiya "why silheti boys n girls prefers to speak kelu?" korle bhala hoy coz ami dekhsi, not talking of silchar.. in shg most of the silheti guys speaks "keleti". AMI LEKHTE LEKHTE BORE HOI GECHI TO TUMRAR PORTE PORTE HAALATH KITA HOIBO BUJHRAM... SO BYE N HAPPY READING....  ;) :)     Mita Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/10/03 at 22:00:44 »    [quote author=Nita link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=15#20 date=02/10/03 at 20:59:06] :D hey guys, ami ekta sylheti meye but not 4m silchar :-[ ami shillong thakiya belong kori but u know guys its the koolest site i have ever found. silchar.com e dhukle shab nijer mono hoy. ami kelu prefer kori na. ami nijere sylheti koite gorbo bodh kori. i think meyera kelu koy showoff korar laiga je tara kelu jane  ;), are baba kelu to amra shobe u jani. most of the times ami notice korsi je silheti baaf maar kelu baicha.. jokhan oi pure silheti manush e kelu koite jay tokhan duita mix hoiya "KELETI" hoi jay as for eg "tui ki tukacchish?" hahahaha ;D ;D ;D. khamokha keleti koiya manushor kache lajja pawa thakiya baba kichu na kowa e bhala. kita thik nani. but 1 thing, tumra question ta change korle bhala hoy.. 4m "why silheti girls prefer to speak kelu" thakiya "why silheti boys n girls prefers to speak kelu?" korle bhala hoy coz ami dekhsi, not talking of silchar.. in shg most of the silheti guys speaks "keleti". AMI LEKHTE LEKHTE BORE HOI GECHI TO TUMRAR PORTE PORTE HAALATH KITA HOIBO BUJHRAM... SO BYE N HAPPY READING....  ;) :) [/quote] te Nita, tumar kothabarta to aro pathetic, tumi kelu koile to keletir loge english miliya keletinglish type er ekta bod kichhu hoi jaibo mone hor;D ;D ;D     silcharor maiya Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/11/03 at 18:53:29 »    Aaicha baba hokol..tumrar silcharor maiya hokoler upre oto raag kene. eta to manbai je khata potre je bhasha choler sei bhasha mukhe shunte o majhe majhe bhala lage, naile aar manushe kene oi bhashat lekhto. silcharer maiya hokol jodi oi bhsha ta shundhar bhabe koito pare to baba hokolor oto raag kene kao sain. ami to koiram na je 'kelu' matto koriya tara re sylheti bhulte lagbo. eta to kunu bhabe namtam nai. kintu duekta bhsha janle oto gusha korte lage ni baba hokoler. aar tumrare kita doraitam ba ..tumra to ghorer pola ra.. :D     RAJU NANDY Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/12/03 at 18:38:59 »    Hi Folks! Why on earth are we making such a fuss over wheather some one speaks in sylheti or kelu?!! Whats the big deal. Agreed you are concerned 'bout sylheti culture and values. But do you think your mother tongue is so vulnerable and week that it would get effected just because a handfull does not speak it in public. I am a sylheti and am proud of it but that doesn't mean i should go cribbing if i see some sylheti fellow not using his or her mother tongue. Rather we should appreciate people who can speak in language other than their mother tongue. Those who are staying away would understand it better. I am staying in delhi now and i speak in my mother tongue when am around with my folks wheather or not we are in a public place and no body relly bothers. But do you think i can survive here if i continue to speak only  in my mother tongue and do not speak the local language or english. ??? Also some times we get used to speaking a certain language so much so that we continue to speak in that language even when we are with our own folks. And i don't see anything wrong in it. It certainly doesn't mean that "X" or "Y" is ashamed of speaking his or her mother tongue. And lets not target any particular segment for it. We all do it some time or the other. But yes, no matter what language we speak,  we should try to speak it in its correct form. There are situations when we make a mess of it. ( don't think any more example is required here :D :D)   But we can alway correct our selves. Wot u say guys. ??? Any ways, let me wish u all a very happy valentine's day. cheers!!!!     silcharor_maiya silcharor_maiya Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/12/03 at 19:20:51 »    [quote author=silcharor maiya link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=15#22 date=02/11/03 at 18:53:29] Aaicha baba hokol..tumrar silcharor maiya hokoler upre oto raag kene. eta to manbai je khata potre je bhasha choler sei bhasha mukhe shunte o majhe majhe bhala lage, naile aar manushe kene oi bhashat lekhto. silcharer maiya hokol jodi oi bhsha ta shundhar bhabe koito pare to baba hokolor oto raag kene kao sain. ami to koiram na je 'kelu' matto koriya tara re sylheti bhulte lagbo. eta to kunu bhabe namtam nai. kintu duekta bhsha janle oto gusha korte lage ni baba hokoler. aar tumrare kita doraitam ba ..tumra to ghorer pola ra.. :D [/quote] igu kigu be amar naam loia lekher????? >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( nijer id lou...onyer ta suri kora bala nai     rajunandy rajunandy Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/13/03 at 19:09:40 »    oops !! never new i was writing from u r id !!  :o :-[ anyways,  sorry.     silcharor_maiya silcharor_maiya Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/13/03 at 21:16:29 »    [quote author=rajunandy link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=15#25 date=02/13/03 at 19:09:40] oops !! never new i was writing from u r id !!  :o :-[ anyways,  sorry.[/quote] bachia thako....baut bosor.... :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)     dipak Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/14/03 at 02:44:33 »    Dear Ladies and gentleman I'm also from silchar. I found that most of the girls are like to speak in kelu. There have so many reason. I'm not going to discuss about the reason. The real fact is that we the silcharities are prefering to make copy. Not only the silchar people, specially the bengali people likes to make copy so nicely. We can't balme to girls only, some boys also like to speak in kelu. We the modern people are prefering to speak in varities languages. If you're talking about the silcharies girls, Yah, it's true that they like to show themselves too much. Let me tell you one latest joke in favour of this topic. One day I visited one place in our locality, the ladies were from silchar, but she likes to speak in kelu. Wherever she can't speak in Kelu as like as Kolkata people. On that time I asked her so nicely, r'u from silchar or not? She replied I'm from dhamdam. I got bit wonder, Lastly she replied that she stayed in silchar for 15 years and her pronounce has fully changed. But the real fact is that her born and bord up from malugram. Thanking you     silcharor_maiya silcharor_maiya Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/14/03 at 18:24:59 »    [quote author=dipak link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=15#27 date=02/14/03 at 02:44:33] Dear Ladies and gentleman I'm also from silchar. I found that most of the girls are like to speak in kelu. There have so many reason. I'm not going to discuss about the reason. The real fact is that we the silcharities are prefering to make copy. Not only the silchar people, specially the bengali people likes to make copy so nicely. We can't balme to girls only, some boys also like to speak in kelu. We the modern people are prefering to speak in varities languages. If you're talking about the silcharies girls, Yah, it's true that they like to show themselves too much. Let me tell you one latest joke in favour of this topic. One day I visited one place in our locality, the ladies were from silchar, but she likes to speak in kelu. Wherever she can't speak in Kelu as like as Kolkata people. On that time I asked her so nicely, r'u from silchar or not? She replied I'm from dhamdam. I got bit wonder, Lastly she replied that she stayed in silchar for 15 years and her pronounce has fully changed. But the real fact is that her born and bord up from malugram. Thanking you [/quote] aare meye ra kelu matte paruk ba na paruk kintu ekta kotha na koia parram na je tumar english ta khub... ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D better hoito jodi tumi kothatain sylhetit lekhtai taile keu tumar english er ninda korte parto nai.....jemon aami english pari na er lagi sylheti mati...mathat budhhdi nai nani?     besh korechi.. Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/20/03 at 01:21:06 »    besh korechi.. kelu bolechi.. bolboi to.. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D     tapabrata Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/21/03 at 18:38:38 »    [quote author=rajyashree dutta link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=0#13 date=11/16/01 at 12:49:35] hi hey u guys why r u making fun of sylethi gals ???? i am also a sylethi and i am proud of my mother tongue .all gals r not the same dear. kita thik koilam nani. i am at present in silchar and feel that silchar is the most lovely place on earth :) [/quote] hello         Madam i m tapabrata and i m 22 yrs old from karimganj. Madam i m very glad to read ur quote.i m appreciating u for ur loving thought. if possible reply me i'll wait for ur reply. mail me at tapabrata_p@silchar.com hello madam i m very appreciating for ur loviing thought.     babul Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/24/03 at 14:22:24 »    hi ita chinta koria aamrar kita  hoibo.......... nijar nouka nije chalao anyway,they look nice when tehy speak kelu :o :-X :-/ ;D :D ;D ;D     Beti Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/25/03 at 10:06:21 »    Orrey re ba babul...I mean [baba r bhul]  :-/ :-/ er folfol beshi falaio na... ;D ;D ;D     silcharor maiya Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 02/28/03 at 18:59:09 »    ki mushkil hoilo. Ke abar kai ami kaar id suri korsi!! jotodur mone pore ei addat ami e prothom entry korsilam ei name. okhon ketai aaiya koi eta. Ke go tumi mata thakurani? nibash koi? jogote kita id r obhab podse ni? ker lagiya amar id ta loiya tanatani koro kao?     pradeep Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 03/07/03 at 19:14:59 »    ok ,stop dis silly things.it not a subject of adda.pl stop this.lets do something better 8)     purkayastha Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 03/16/03 at 20:30:20 »    debojit, i do not agree with your assessment at all. it is not only the girls but the guys as well who routinely do such stuff. i am surprised for i have been a zealous speaker of my bhasha  and i am definitely offended if someone makes fun of this. however, one reason can be that sylhetis from this region have to move on to greener pastures in search of a career where sylheti is not a dominant language. had we had a reverse phenomenon, we would maybe have seen kelus learning sylheti !!!!!! how does that sound ? far - fetched ?     anuj Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 03/19/03 at 23:23:08 »    hi friend iam from mumbai. i am proud of sylheti language. its a kind of their(girl's) natural disease. anuj     ZIKRUL HAQUE Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 03/21/03 at 23:48:51 »    I KNOW BECAUSE THEY ABSOILUTELY STUPID, ILLITERATE     MIYA MOHAMMAD ZIKRUL HAQU Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 03/21/03 at 23:52:38 »    ABEY HAY, LISTEN TO ME IF YOU ARE A BRITISH SYLHETI BOY LIKE ME WHO IS LIVING IN U.K. MY ADVICE TO ALL SYLHETI BOY IS DON'T MERRY A SYLHETI STUPID GIRL IN U.K. HA HA HA HA. THEY ARE BLOODY RUBISHES, IT IS TRUE.     Merrymar(r)y Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 03/22/03 at 05:22:46 »    who wants to 'merry' re bhai? biya korbai to ikano aao..aar ita kita maat re 'bloody rubishes'...please don't spread profanity in this forum.     sylheti Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 03/22/03 at 06:31:19 »    ita bejan deksi baa, maiya r phula kali kelu mare, kintu ami bejan manush dekshi je ita pasando kore na, abar jokon premo pore sylheti maiyar loge tokon abar nije kelu koi asale byapar kita, maiyar lage alpo alu bechte gele kelu ta better naile maiya patani ta tuff ekon jodi kuno maiya bhaal lage r taire giya kou " tumare bo amar bejan baal laagse, tumi kita kou' amar mone hoi na maiya pataibar chance ase koriya..     Tumi Amar Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 03/22/03 at 20:29:03 »    Koi ba sylheti meyera. Tumra dekhi dine dine bore hoi jairay. Tumra emnou olosh sobthaki. Mane Kelu otar thaki. Kishu ekta koro re ba.     Ritendra Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/05/03 at 18:39:01 »    Hi, I am not agree that all sylheti girls are following same. we here in dhaka if we meet any sylheti no matter boy or girl, we always practise our own language (sylheti) and we feel proud to talk like this way. even if you visit to varsity or high official area you always find same. we never follow dhakaia or kelu  among sylhites who living in dhaka or outside of sylhet. yeah.....i come across some silchari puri, they try to present themselves smart as to using kelu...but they can't follow kelu like kolkata and  eventually they got messed-up. t/fore, my urge to all sylhites to keep our own language value up. Rgds Ritendradeb@hotmail.com Dhaka, Bangladesh     dibyendu pal Guest want to tell about sylethi gals   «on: 04/17/03 at 19:22:00 »    [quote author=rajyashree dutta link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=0#13 date=11/16/01 at 12:49:35] hi hey u guys why r u making fun of sylethi gals ???? i am also a sylethi and i am proud of my mother tongue .all gals r not the same dear. kita thik koilam nani. i am at present in silchar and feel that silchar is the most lovely place on earth :) [/quote]  hey friends why u people making fun of sylethi gals .u know they r the coolest gals,they know the reality of this universe. they know how to react with others ,how to behave with others.so don't make fun of them.u mothers may be of a sylethi.sylethi mayar motho bhala maiya konokano paithaynai. ar lagi koi sylethi maiyar bodnam korio na.                                     dibyendu(nerist sylethi association)     piya Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/17/03 at 23:07:30 »    Hi,   I have something to say here. I am taking my own example. I am from Shillong and I have been born and brought up there, both my baba and ma are from Sylhet and they speak that toungue. But none of my siblings nor me can speak it,we understand fully but are unable to speak. So its not that just to fell high and mighty we dont speak the language and there are many like us. And it has been told to us in our childhood that a child speaking sylhetti sounds vulgar. Although I totally disagree with this notion but still its the practise that many follow.I love the language and so does others. Its wrong in anyones part to create barriers becoz of the toungue we are speaking in.Catch you all later. :) :)     ranjeet kanu Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/04/03 at 18:23:20 »    hi dear .....i also found lots of girls in silchar who are originally from silchar .every day she pass near by my shop and i find that she use to talk in sylheti i follow her so many time ,but one she talk with me ,she talk with me in kelu I was just socked when i hear kelu i just see her face and started laughing she just feel same on her and go way and never come to me again .my mother tounge is hindi but i love to talk in sylheti but i dont understand why sylheti girls try to become more smart by using kulu i ask one thing that without kelu they dont do anything by using their own mother tounge .if they do that than only they become more smart than any kelu girl . tumra amar khota bucho ni.     ritrose ritrose Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/11/03 at 08:13:23 »    i don't really think that all shyleti girls prefer talking in kelu. i'm a shyleti girl too and we always love when we get some shyleti people to talk to here at b'lore. i think there is a section of people who prefer to talk in syleti and not necessarily all r girls, there r a few boys also who feel ashamed to reveal their identity as syleti. catagorising "girls who prefer to speak kelu" is absolutely wrong on ur part.     heti Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/12/03 at 11:19:32 »    kya hua tum log ka koi kaam nahi hai kya jo ladki ke piche pade ho .tum ladka log kya baat karta hai ,saala koi ladki milne se uske saath kalu mein baat karta hai tab ,tab tumahra syl-heti kaha jaata hai tab kya tum log bhul jaate ho. tum saara maa ke aachal mein jake baitha raho samjhe acche baccha log bye     heti Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/12/03 at 11:21:14 »    kya hua tum log ka koi kaam nahi hai kya jo ladki ke piche pade ho .tum ladka log kya baat karta hai ,saala koi ladki milne se uske saath kelu mein baat karta hai tab ,tab tumahra syl-heti kaha jaata hai tab kya tum log bhul jaate ho. tum saara maa ke aachal mein jake baitha raho samjhe acche baccha log bye     heti Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/12/03 at 11:24:52 »    [quote author=heti link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=45#47 date=05/12/03 at 11:19:32]  ;D  kya hua tum log ka koi kaam nahi hai kya jo ladki ke piche pade ho .tum ladka log kya baat karta hai ,saala koi ladki milne se uske saath ke ;)lu mein baat karta hai tab ,tab tumahra syl-heti kaha jaata hai tab kya tum log bhul jaate ho. tum saara maa ke aachal mein jake baitha raho samjhe acche baccha log 8) :P  bye  ; :D ::) [/quote]     heti Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/12/03 at 11:25:56 »    [quote author=heti link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=45#47 date=05/12/03 at 11:19:32]  ;D  kya hua tum log ka koi kaam nahi hai kya jo ladki ke piche pade ho .tum ladka log kya baat karta hai ,saala koi ladki milne se uske saath ke ;)lu mein baat karta hai tab ,tab tumahra syl-heti kaha jaata hai tab kya tum log bhul jaate ho. tum saara maa ke aachal mein jake baitha raho samjhe acche baccha log 8) :P  bye  ; :D ::) [/quote]     debasishsilchar debasishsilchar how to chat in silchar.com   «on: 05/18/03 at 18:42:54 »    hai every body pls chat in silchar.com in chat room at 6.30 pm to 10.30pm every day to discuss about silchar     khalid Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/21/03 at 17:34:47 »    Its really imaging that all the silchari  guys   Are very conscious why silchari girls talk Kelu? Yes, today I first time access silchar.com. It’s really a fun . I miss  my mother tong here. Now a days I am staying in Dubai. At last I want to say “ silchari  didi hokol kelu boloar chesta korio na kelu tomader manay na.”  Khalid From Dubai Mail me “   khalid25@rediffmail.com     khalid Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/22/03 at 17:56:38 »    KI GO MITA KITA KOBOR.  ;D BALA ULA ACHO NI. HI MITA THIS KHALID FROM DUBAI. I MISS ALL SYLHETI WORDS. WRITE ME  khalid25@rediffmail.com. [quote author=Mita link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=15#21 date=02/10/03 at 22:00:44] te Nita, tumar kothabarta to aro pathetic, tumi kelu koile to keletir loge english miliya keletinglish type er ekta bod kichhu hoi jaibo mone hor;D ;D ;D [/quote]     Abhijit Deb Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/29/03 at 22:17:28 »    Think, think & think..............Silcharer ladies ra kelu koinna....tara to sylethi-o koinna.........tara koin silu........ita kintu bhalau lage sunle..........kene na silcharer manusher chesta ache bhujha jai.....     subir som Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/30/03 at 21:12:58 »    SILCHAR IS A DIRTY PLACE     . Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/30/03 at 21:15:36 »    Thugs! [quote author=subir som link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=45#55 date=05/30/03 at 21:12:58] SILCHAR IS A DIRTY PLACE [/quote]     dada Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 05/30/03 at 22:49:09 »    [quote author=subir som link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=45#55 date=05/30/03 at 21:12:58] SILCHAR IS A DIRTY PLACE [/quote] Then why are you here in silchar.com....get lost, you moron.     subha Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/03/03 at 19:33:53 »    Silcharer myera kenu bole ta dekha jaye bishesh kore soddo bibahito boudi der.Unara tader chele mye der kelu sikye thakhen.Jokhon Dada Boudira nijeder moydhe kotha bolen thokhon sob Cachari.Kintu Jokhon Bachader sathe kotha bolen thokhon aye ki hoche o rokon korbe na.Silchare akhon Bhasar mohamai cholche.Oti sottor door korte hobe. :-* :-* :-*stop     Mrinal Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/09/03 at 13:11:23 »    Chellera 8) kitchu kom nai >:(. Lagal paile to hindi ar ingraji bade kotha bar hoi na. Ar syleti kowa mayarar sathe date marbo kemne. Bool koilam ni. ;)     khalid Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/09/03 at 17:54:29 »    Rajyashree tumi dik kota koyla. we are proud that we talks sylethi.kinto jani na silchar ar mayia kita lagi kelu kota koy. kiso kiso girl over smartness dekaitey balo money korey.dear it is too difficult to write sylethi words. i am originally from karimganj now a days i am in Dubai . bye khalid [quote author=rajyashree dutta link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=0#13 date=11/16/01 at 12:49:35] hi hey u guys why r u making fun of sylethi gals ???? i am also a sylethi and i am proud of my mother tongue .all gals r not the same dear. kita thik koilam nani. i am at present in silchar and feel that silchar is the most lovely place on earth :) [/quote]     Asim_Kr._Choudhury Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/16/03 at 11:27:15 »    Regarding the debate of sylheti gorls speaking Kelu, I reserve the opinion that these girls lack an understanding of we Silcharites. Basically, I am a researcher and can bet you that if a girl prefers kelu to sylheti, she is fickle-minded and extremely risky.Today she can discard her mother tongue to something else, tomorrow she can discard individuals. Guys are pretty much solid and their identity is stronger. I don't mind taking loudly in Sylheti in Connaught Place in Delhi. Why should I? When Punjabis can die for Punjabiyat, and Jats can swear by their jat language, why can't I? Tomorrow if I get a chance, I might even raise my voice in in sylheti in the international arena....proudly...with heads high. Regarding Kelu and their petty Calcatians, time again they have proved that they are a disgrace to the Bengali community. During Bhasa andolan, all Calcatians were in deep slumber when Sylhetis were being killed. Remember, the onus of upholding the fiery Bengali sprit now lies on all the natives of Sylhet. "Bafe na pute chunga bori mute" applies well to the new breed of pseudo Sylheti girls today. I think with such narrow mindsets they are hanging around much like a pendulum, without an identity. Ragarding the suggestion by some that one need not be concerned about what one speaks, let me be very clear that language is not personal. This issue is definately important if we sylhetis are to have a great culture ahead. Kelu may be the standard for these sylheti girls but Calcutta definately earns its repute as a third rated city in the world along with cities like Delhi. There is not much sheen and glory in the culture right at the moment. Take for instance, Calcutta has the largest prostitution market in India as well as the largest number of old-age homes in the world.     Stephen Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/19/03 at 17:20:03 »    [quote author=Asim_Kr._Choudhury link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=60#62 date=06/16/03 at 11:27:15] Take for instance, Calcutta has the largest prostitution market in India as well as the largest number of old-age homes in the world. [/quote] Dear researcher, Can we have the source of Your Information ?     Shekhar Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/25/03 at 23:28:47 »    Speaking in the line with Stefan , I also demand an authentic source information about your qoute Mr. Researcher.  Your remark about Calcutta and its culture is totally outrageous and unthoughtful. By slinging mud on Calcutta and its people , you have only disgraced your own bengali origin.Calcutta may  be going through an economic slump, but majority of the people fortunately don't have that corrupted and screwed up mentality like the people in Delhi.And if you want to know whole lot of work which people from Calcutta are doing which brings a good name to India , let me know . We can have a direct discussion.  Coming to the point of Sylheti girls talking in bangla as spoken in Calcutta , It is one's personal choice and obviously  due to peer pressure. If sylheti junta have to enrich their culture and literature .. may be there are talented persons who will write some day to win a nobel prize . But definitly you can't acheive this by defaming Calcuttan'n. [quote author=Asim_Kr._Choudhury link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=60#62 date=06/16/03 at 11:27:15] Regarding the debate of sylheti gorls speaking Kelu, I reserve the opinion that these girls lack an understanding of we Silcharites. Basically, I am a researcher and can bet you that if a girl prefers kelu to sylheti, she is fickle-minded and extremely risky.Today she can discard her mother tongue to something else, tomorrow she can discard individuals. Guys are pretty much solid and their identity is stronger. I don't mind taking loudly in Sylheti in Connaught Place in Delhi. Why should I? When Punjabis can die for Punjabiyat, and Jats can swear by their jat language, why can't I? Tomorrow if I get a chance, I might even raise my voice in in sylheti in the international arena....proudly...with heads high. Regarding Kelu and their petty Calcatians, time again they have proved that they are a disgrace to the Bengali community. During Bhasa andolan, all Calcatians were in deep slumber when Sylhetis were being killed. Remember, the onus of upholding the fiery Bengali sprit now lies on all the natives of Sylhet. "Bafe na pute chunga bori mute" applies well to the new breed of pseudo Sylheti girls today. I think with such narrow mindsets they are hanging around much like a pendulum, without an identity. Ragarding the suggestion by some that one need not be concerned about what one speaks, let me be very clear that language is not personal. This issue is definately important if we sylhetis are to have a great culture ahead. Kelu may be the standard for these sylheti girls but Calcutta definately earns its repute as a third rated city in the world along with cities like Delhi. There is not much sheen and glory in the culture right at the moment. Take for instance, Calcutta has the largest prostitution market in India as well as the largest number of old-age homes in the world. [/quote]     candy Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/28/03 at 20:56:14 »     aamra no hoe kelu tai bollam.bhashai ki jai ashe.mone to sileti  aar khali mainder pichhonei laga lagi keno ???chhelerao to amader shonge kelutei kotha bole.bolte na parleo to bole.aar shob mainra to style kore kelu bole na.aamio kelu boli b'coz aamar maa kelu.mar kachh thekei to kotha bola shikhlam     banasree Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/05/03 at 14:09:09 »    deojit, kelu amrar mukho manay na ita ke kailo tumare ? ashle amara silcharer meyra jekuno jaigay sange khap khaiyte pari, kelu rar lage kelu ar sylletirar lage sylleti . chelera meyrar moto oto taratari khap khayaite pare na dekhio ulta pulta comment kare. ar ita suniya rakho sylleti hishabe ami khub garbito. ami ekhon GHY tit thaki ar ekhano prayi sylleti VS assam vellyr bengali (jara so called kelu) judhya lage ar obviously amra sylletira jiti.     sweet_sour sweet_sour Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/07/03 at 17:59:55 »    :D It is really something queer..........after I joined G C College,I tried to learn Sylheti....as I was always with Assamese people during my schooldays.Every time I tried to speak sylheti they always advised me not to try....instead they answered me back in kelu.and the result was that....now, when I'm going to be married to a hardcore Sylheti lover....I'm trying it in New Delhi.....and it has become tough . :'( :D ;)but i enjoy romancing in sylheti with my would-be.The language is raw and real....and it smells soil....my root...far in Hailakandi....my father's village and the river beside...the sweet odour of my grand mother.....and moreand more. My dear Omrita....r u in KOLKATA?how r u?remember?Paromita Sharma.......now in N.Delhi.....how r u?contact me in Mahaadda...u sweet sylheti lover...I loved u for that.     jags Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/29/03 at 22:21:05 »    Thats right Stephen. Listen to yourself man(researcher)...Throwing dirt on Calcutta does not make you nobel, it shows your poor upbreeding. It is very noble to be proud of our mother tongue Sylheti, but talking dirty about Calcutta is a poor show. Start researching on pigsty, you might friends similar minded friend there ... and that suits you better. [quote author=Stephen link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=60#62 date=06/19/03 at 17:20:03] Dear researcher, Can we have the source of Your Information ? [/quote]     a_arnie a_arnie Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/30/03 at 07:51:18 »    ;) well my frends i am back again with my bored discussions again...but as far as mahaadda is concerned i consider it to be the best section in silchar.com..any way girls in silchar are considered to be beautiful, smart, intelligent and of course good natured folks..I hve seen girls in all most in every city like delhi, bangalore, calcutta, guwahati, ahamedabad, and MUMBAI...what I find is that girls have a desire to be trendy and obviously to show off..now the present scenario in silchar does not permit a girl to wear show off clothes like the MTV STYLE...well thats why they prefer to go for some show off like the kelu style...which people like me simply hate it..even girls hve a mentality that by speaking in kelu will let them impress people or they may be given a separate class..i still remember in my college days there wre a couple where the guy could not speak kelu properly and the girl spoke in kelu:- girl: aajke ki korcho tumi? boy: oou to class er pore cinemaya hamiye jabo girl: ooh tumi ki cute go boy:oota kita bolcho tumi  cute mane kita girl: cute mane hochhe jaake aador korte khub bhalo lage boy: te to bhalau boy:aaichaa eeeyo tumar pora suna kilakhan cholteche girl: bhalo so this was the course of discussion between them we freinds had a gr8 time ...well girls have a desire to show off so by  hiring another language they feel as if they are doing well in doing a show off....but i would like to thank silchar.com to bring this matter in light...well thank any way     a_arnie a_arnie Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/02/03 at 17:51:31 »    ALWAYS PRESENT YOURSELF IN WHAT EXACTLY YOU ARE>>>DONT TRY TO BE OVER SMART BEING CALLED or BY CALLING YOURSELF what exactly you are not.....my frends work hard for the upliftment of your culture like our dear PREMASHISH DEB and lot many others working for www.silchar.com are doing....The world is a place where you need to present yourself on the basis of creating an identity not just asking others or searching for an identity..Identity is something really unique....well we sylhetis have a unique culture we are warm harted people , we are not kanjoos like those of calcuttans, but one thing i should to the maiyaas(girls) of silchar to please converse in their in mother tongue(sylheti)....even our professors in our colleges do the same mistake....well but not all...I m really proud to be a sylheti and i really love my culture and even in the sylheti sammelon of delhi i would always give my importance in my language..so my idea will not be searching for an identity....but creating an identity...If we dont do that right now then our future genaration will always be confused like the way we are confused now....so work hard for your culture, your people and obviously for your identity.. it can only be done if we sylhetis are pro-active enough to look forward in creating an identity instead of searching for one..... remember we people are unique since we feel the need for an identity why not work hard for it... we can do it in our own way.. at least by conversing in our mother tongue will really do the first step...     Sabir Ahmed Laskar Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/03/03 at 16:01:20 »    Only for showing aristrocracy/modernity.     mahapurush buban Guest Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/04/03 at 08:18:48 »      eta ekta kot aoelo ne uh???asolay eta maiyar khai ya kuno kam nai otar laigga kalu_ut nakame maray.mathar modhhay kunta nai t' ti "fungtame" marar laigga bhabay jay nijor mattre bhasa r thaikka kalu suntay bala lagay!!burbok okholay jodi ekbar ne jayr golar awaz recored koriya sun ya tailay er por thaikka r kuno din kalu marto nai.jai sylheti     kalpika Guest Re:  Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/05/03 at 07:20:24 »    Oi reba Buban, thiku koiso.. Ta tumar moto koyekta chagal janmaile silchar rasatal-e jaibo. Snan-er samay matha dhao na ni? abarjana-y bharti... [quote author=mahapurush buban link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=60#71 date=08/04/03 at 08:18:48]   eta ekta kot aoelo ne uh???asolay eta maiyar khai ya kuno kam nai otar laigga kalu_ut nakame maray.mathar modhhay kunta nai t' ti "fungtame" marar laigga bhabay jay nijor mattre bhasa r thaikka kalu suntay bala lagay!!burbok okholay jodi ekbar ne jayr golar awaz recored koriya sun ya tailay er por thaikka r kuno din kalu marto nai.jai sylheti [/quote]     subir kashyap Guest sylheti  Girls ! Find your Dream Partner !   «on: 08/05/03 at 13:45:02 »    Bengali Matrimonial coverages with other community matrimonials from the only matrimonial website from north east india exclusive wedding feature...visit imatch4u.com ==== visit imatch4u.com =======================     Biswajit Biswajit Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/06/03 at 09:45:53 »    mat asil sylheti ar kelur! tain abar match.com loia koitakia aigela     jhilly(sarita) Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/06/03 at 14:23:59 »    ok ok.......shobtai bujlam,shobtai phorlam,.......kintu.......ekta kotha kao sain tumra pula hogol?jokhon tumra bairo aia kelu kao tokhon?ami bout chelerare paisi ino delhi t jara kelu mate kintu tara amrar deshor manush. ami okhon ei mail ta likhram delhi t boia.amar bondhu shokol ,ekta kotha shudhu koi amio silchar or maiya kintu nijor deshbarir kotha koar style ami okhono bhulchina .aij ou  adda section ta amar khub i bala lagche.r shobaire ami eitao janaite chai je ikhano ami je tinta maiya rar loge achi tara o silchar or r tara o khub shundor amrar desh barir style o kotha koite pare.dont worry bondhugon,amra amrar deshor kotha koar style ono aiyao bojaye raksi.......ok bondhugon.....bala thakio tumra shobai.......iti tomari deshbarir ekjon bondhu... :)     Masud_Rana Masud_Rana Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/06/03 at 17:23:38 »    Hi Sarita Are you submitting to masculine pressure?  You should have freedom to speak whatever language or dialect you like, shouldn't you? Masud Rana m.rana-alumni.lse.ac.uk     jagairaj Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/06/03 at 18:22:34 »    Aichcha sylheti kuno cuisine ache ne? kuno sylheti dish? Thakle bhala hoito! Ar dish koile-o implicitly mach-er katha mone hoi   :P Meyera ei bishoye jante pare.     kalpika Guest Re:  Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/07/03 at 16:17:21 »       kita ray ba                  tume kita nijaray khub poriskar monay koro ne ??? nijay ssan koro na koria sobray ekta paiso ne uh?jai hok tumar kotha poreya monay oesay jay tume ekta asta makal pathe, agay nijayr matha bala koreya dhu ya ao tar poray kotha ue bo r jode thik thik kichu koetay chao tailay mail kore o bubs_2@rediffmail.com     amiekjon Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/07/03 at 21:39:48 »    ami ekta sylheti dish jani> sutkir matha diye muger dal aar tar saathe sutkir fish fry ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D     brishti indianfriend Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/08/03 at 17:01:34 »    ami jani ekta lip-smacking dish.................... :P :P :D SHIDOLER BORA: sidolre piyaj-roshun-lonka diya chatni banaiya rakhbai.tarpore kumra-patar bhitre rakhiya pur-rer moton bhorbai....chauler gura makhaiya, halka agoono , duba telo...aste-aste bhajibai. mooshurir dailor loge...garam-garam :o :D ;D :PAHA-AHA--- amar kanda ayor....kotodin khaichhina....ei mora dilli-t daal makhni ar butter-chiken chhara itai kunta chinoin-na....tomato ar piyaj chhara kono khawar jinish banani itar dara oshombhob!!!tarar shob kichhur ek rokom shaad :'( :'( :'( I think , we all syl people in delhi should through a party only for shutki and shidol dishes.....let those Sardars shout their emty head out ..... ;D ;D ;D and we ....all eat our favourite dishes here.....anybody interested? :)     MridulChakravorty Guest Thik ou koiso re ba ......ShidolParty   «on: 08/09/03 at 16:57:28 »    Tomarkotha shuniya aamar mon o bodo dukhito aar aamar chouk aar jibba diya ekloge jal bairor...........kobe kortai shidol party...........aamarre janaio........aamar ph:9811912936. :P     marketing executive Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/09/03 at 19:12:03 »    ehe he he dada....khub bhala laglo aafner mobile no paaia....ami icici,hsbc,hdfc,statebank er credit card,home loan,two wheleer loan, bikri kori. dada kalke aafnare phone kormu....bhala rate e dimu dada...chinta korba na.....silchar er manush bolia kotha.     shankha datta Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/11/03 at 10:35:22 »    bhala ni bondhura aami tumrar discussion on s"why sylleti girls prefer speaking in kelu?" porlam. aamar personal xperience thika deksi meyera nijerer moidhey syllety te matte, kintu jokhoni kunu chele kinar diya pass kore tara at once kelu te transfer hoi jai. Ta chara silchorer meyerar ekta general fascination bairer proti. aami nije dekhchi je kunu sylleti chele jodi hindi te mate te maiyara impressed hoi jai.aami sylleti meye re request korte chai je tumra oto inferiority complex e bhugio na."Sylleti is the third sweetest language in the world".jotoi "ekhane" aar "okhane" kori lao na kene jatokhon na "kita re ba, bhala ni 'koiso totokhon peter bhat hojom hoito na     shoman Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/11/03 at 17:35:21 »    ??? its very tough to tell u that Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ? and i found many boys also do the same ... its really a great question and its very difficult to get the answer i think u also have done the same so u can arise these question ....  tels do one thing let also start kelu hope while doing these we may get the anser  take care and all the best                   shoman :-X ;D :'(     jags Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/13/03 at 22:39:17 »    Burbak hakal, bhasa laiya khawa khawi koriya ekta web site-er misuse korray kene? Ar kuno topic nai ni jate silchar-cachar-karimganj -er labh hai?? gram-er koto  school sarkari grant-er abhabo bandho hoi jar, chikitsa'r abhab, rastaghat, corruption... hita dike karo najar nai. Sab-e miliya lagsuin bhasa udhdhar karat...  Maiyara-o saman tale nachiya jaira praman karte tara khub sylheti... Bhasa to ekla bache na , bhasa bache manush-er modhdhey. Mukhe mukhe identity-crisis, hypothesis chariya sab-e jodi amrar sahar, gram-er samsya'r katha likhto, saitan leader-rar katha likhto, taile tabu hoito kuno labh hoito. Ta na , sobe laiya porchuin sylheti maiyar pet-o kelu kene..ba ba ki romantic topic.. sob-e likhiya fatai laira. Pariya amare hoyto sobe gail diya bhut charai diba.. kintu ja mone hoi likhlam.     brishti indianfriend Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/14/03 at 14:07:50 »    :DI appreciate!!!!!!!!!!!!At long last someone is talking sense.Thanx for ur contribution in mahaadda...........by God,I thought sylheti boys will lose all their energy in discovering the reason for syl girls speaking kelu....You know, such an important issue can be brushed aside for a while, when the whole region is suffering from so many more important problems............. :D [quote author=jags link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=75#85 date=08/13/03 at 22:39:17] Burbak hakal, bhasa laiya khawa khawi koriya ekta web site-er misuse korray kene? Ar kuno topic nai ni jate silchar-cachar-karimganj -er labh hai?? gram-er koto  school sarkari grant-er abhabo bandho hoi jar, chikitsa'r abhab, rastaghat, corruption... hita dike karo najar nai. Sab-e miliya lagsuin bhasa udhdhar karat...  Maiyara-o saman tale nachiya jaira praman karte tara khub sylheti... Bhasa to ekla bache na , bhasa bache manush-er modhdhey. Mukhe mukhe identity-crisis, hypothesis chariya sab-e jodi amrar sahar, gram-er samsya'r katha likhto, saitan leader-rar katha likhto, taile tabu hoito kuno labh hoito. Ta na , sobe laiya porchuin sylheti maiyar pet-o kelu kene..ba ba ki romantic topic.. sob-e likhiya fatai laira. Pariya amare hoyto sobe gail diya bhut charai diba.. kintu ja mone hoi likhlam. [/quote]     shaan shaan Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/14/03 at 20:09:18 »    [quote author=jags link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=75#85 date=08/13/03 at 22:39:17] Burbak hakal, bhasa laiya khawa khawi koriya ekta web site-er misuse korray kene? Ar kuno topic nai ni jate silchar-cachar-karimganj -er labh hai?? gram-er koto  school sarkari grant-er abhabo bandho hoi jar, chikitsa'r abhab, rastaghat, corruption... hita dike karo najar nai. Sab-e miliya lagsuin bhasa udhdhar karat...  Maiyara-o saman tale nachiya jaira praman karte tara khub sylheti... Bhasa to ekla bache na , bhasa bache manush-er modhdhey. Mukhe mukhe identity-crisis, hypothesis chariya sab-e jodi amrar sahar, gram-er samsya'r katha likhto, saitan leader-rar katha likhto, taile tabu hoito kuno labh hoito. Ta na , sobe laiya porchuin sylheti maiyar pet-o kelu kene..ba ba ki romantic topic.. sob-e likhiya fatai laira. Pariya amare hoyto sobe gail diya bhut charai diba.. kintu ja mone hoi likhlam. [/quote] This is the kind of bull sheeeeeet I have noticed from some morsumi birds in the site. The species first time discover the easy way of getting their own trash publish in the most easy way and start thinking in renaissance mode. Hey come on bachha……do u really want to change the world ? haan? ….yes tell me u gobi ka fool…circus ka retired Bandar…..want to see pyramid upside down…. tell me kid….everytime u talk with ur parents, or sisters or ur friends do u always talk about development of your country upliftment of the poor, growth of nations’ per capita income in diverse fields, grass root programmes for kissans, tubewell and water treatment and electricity problem in villages, child and adult education, Below Poverty Line (BPL) curriculums, small scale business possibilities and bla bla bla…… yes kid….my question is DO U ALWAYS TALK TO YOUR PARENTS,FRIEND,SISITERS AND FRIENDS on above lines and issues and themes. The answer is plain and simple…NO. There is something called adda….u alien, ever heard of it, and it includes everything….just surf the maha adda a little bit, and u’ll find all ur answers, ha ha  and u r thinking u have exported the ideas first time to the board. Remember, kid,  only people participations can propel this room….or else it cross the threshold of black hole. If u wanna  recreate, rebirth, revive ur valley’s social, political, economical,  loopholes, go ahead, and do it…we are with u…show us light…..u know we need a pathbreaker like u…. Yes we can think on development issues….but maha adda caries thoughts on them….why don’t u start an ngo or something like that…never mind about ur career….carrer is nothing if u compare it with sachha seva 4 people….we are with u…don’t worry….and I believe we will certainly have a separate space on the website for development issues….on public demand…. Lastly to  Bristii…..do u think all fools and morons partcipate in silchar.com..r u questioning their intelligent quotient Brsiti…..jader aar kono khaia daaia kaj nai…..why don’t u understand u blunt….this is just an alternative to adda….we can talk rubbish but not necessarily we should mean everthing we preach… For God’s sake why don’t these people understand, shobkichhur ekta jayga thake… aar shober nijosso shadhinota aase jekono topic niya discuss korar. I would request jags and bristi to start a new thread on their favorite topic instead of passing comments on existing users. Why hurt other’s sensibilities and get the sheet back.     jags Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/14/03 at 21:29:42 »    Thats it. I stepped on the toes of a wise dude. Indeed a  seasonal bird had put its dropping in this sacred place a.k.a someone's drawing room, a private property of someone Sylheti by heart. My my! how could he dare!!! ... Sonny I do not always talk about reforms to my family, but I do sometimes. My doggy does not, because he is an animal, he chases a doggy to mate. You better pull my doggy in your group, it would be a union of similar minds. Kiddo I did not object to Mahaadda, which I think is a bengalee's basic need. I object to the hypocrisy that is going around here, which you are part of no doubt. Your asinine qualities blinded you from seeing things straight. Indeed there should be a separate thread for discussing serious topics. I wanted there to be one, which I believed a better way of utilising  a local, unbiased web site. Clown like you must also have that much grey matter(I desparately hope) to see the re-repetition of cliches in this room. Donkey, come out and speak honestly, do you care a shit what language the girls speak? I dont give a shit as long as the girls are good honest respectable. Donkey, I know that the enthusiasm people show in this room can be channelised to a greater cause, instead of dragging a dead topic. That was my intention in previous mail, and yes I AM A NEWBIE here. So circus ka fulltime bandar, think calmly what I wanted to say with your limited resources ... else my doggy is there for you to share iits ideas. [quote author=shaan link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=75#87 date=08/14/03 at 20:09:18] This is the kind of bull sheeeeeet I have noticed from some morsumi birds in the site. The species first time discover the easy way of getting their own trash publish in the most easy way and start thinking in renaissance mode. Hey come on bachha……do u really want to change the world ? haan? ….yes tell me u gobi ka fool…circus ka retired Bandar…..want to see pyramid upside down…. tell me kid….everytime u talk with ur parents, or sisters or ur friends do u always talk about development of your country upliftment of the poor, growth of nations’ per capita income in diverse fields, grass root programmes for kissans, tubewell and water treatment and electricity problem in villages, child and adult education, Below Poverty Line (BPL) curriculums, small scale business possibilities and bla bla bla…… yes kid….my question is DO U ALWAYS TALK TO YOUR PARENTS,FRIEND,SISITERS AND FRIENDS on above lines and issues and themes. The answer is plain and simple…NO. There is something called adda….u alien, ever heard of it, and it includes everything….just surf the maha adda a little bit, and u’ll find all ur answers, ha ha  and u r thinking u have exported the ideas first time to the board. Remember, kid,  only people participations can propel this room….or else it cross the threshold of black hole. If u wanna  recreate, rebirth, revive ur valley’s social, political, economical,  loopholes, go ahead, and do it…we are with u…show us light…..u know we need a pathbreaker like u…. Yes we can think on development issues….but maha adda caries thoughts on them….why don’t u start an ngo or something like that…never mind about ur career….carrer is nothing if u compare it with sachha seva 4 people….we are with u…don’t worry….and I believe we will certainly have a separate space on the website for development issues….on public demand…. Lastly to  Bristii…..do u think all fools and morons partcipate in silchar.com..r u questioning their intelligent quotient Brsiti…..jader aar kono khaia daaia kaj nai…..why don’t u understand u blunt….this is just an alternative to adda….we can talk rubbish but not necessarily we should mean everthing we preach… For God’s sake why don’t these people understand, shobkichhur ekta jayga thake… aar shober nijosso shadhinota aase jekono topic niya discuss korar. I would request jags and bristi to start a new thread on their favorite topic instead of passing comments on existing users. Why hurt other’s sensibilities and get the sheet back. [/quote]     shaan shaan Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/15/03 at 11:30:48 »    [quote author=jags link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=75#85 date=08/13/03 at 22:39:17] Burbak hakal, Ar kuno topic nai ni jate silchar-cachar-karimganj -er labh hai??Maiyara-o saman tale nachiya jaira praman karte tara khub sylheti... sobe laiya porchuin sylheti maiyar pet-o kelu kene..ba ba ki romantic topic.. sob-e likhiya fatai laira. [/quote] the revolutionary leader's first post     shaan shaan Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/15/03 at 11:34:02 »    [quote author=jags link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=75#88 date=08/14/03 at 21:29:42] Sonny I do not always talk about reforms to my family, but I do sometimes. My doggy does not, because he is an animal, he chases a doggy to mate. You better pull my doggy in your group, it would be a union of similar minds. I object to the hypocrisy that is going around here, which you are part of no doubt. Your asinine qualities blinded you from seeing things straight. Clown like you must also have that much grey matter(I desparately hope) to see the re-repetition of cliches in this room. Donkey, come out and speak honestly, So circus ka fulltime bandar, think calmly what I wanted to say with your limited resources ... else my doggy is there for you to share iits ideas. [/quote] revolutionary leader on second thoughts     shaan shaan Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/15/03 at 12:05:29 »    [quote author=jags link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=75#85 date=08/13/03 at 22:39:17] Burbak hakal, Ar kuno topic nai ni jate silchar-cachar-karimganj -er labh hai?? [/quote] kid, here is some inidicative list, i feel (with my limited understanding and knowledge) are sensible topics....take a percentage and u will see we people also discuss heavy weight topics....bcoz we are also from the same soil...  For those who want to learn about ethics of war by Prasenjit   Barak Valley is in bangladesh-The Statesman  by krishanu_bhattjee   sylheti englsh writer in USA !! by Krishanu Bhattacharjee CELEBRATE THE SPIRIT OF 19th MAY  by Prasenjit Biswas       Should Barak Valley be granted statehood ??? by  admin   how much "sylheti" is our sylheti ?? by  raahu   career and life outside silchar by  krishanu_bhattjee  Do we have any identity ???  by silchari (Guest)  Future of Silchar by  Subhash  what d u call them.....  shaan  marriage dowry; abolish or continue?  by babla ''shameful crime against humanity" by  Soumitra Kumar Nandy  silchar has changed a lot!!! but!!! by  pradip kumar datta   Does Silchar need a cellphone operator ? ? ? ?by   C o o L  D u  d E  A case for war  by ojeen  Is NERICIQ dead  by Symphony  Your identity by  Masud Rana    situation is really bad by   pradip datta      SILCHAR !!!! NOW AND BEFORE  by a_arnie  Is Shyleti a language? by  confused  somebody remembers by   confused  I Love A Sylheti girl...   by freebird  ABOUT OUR IDENTITY by  a_arnie  the burning question  by abijitroy  Nothing Really Matters   by Raja+DUTTA  Why cant silchar change for the better   byBiswajit  HSLC results  by confused    Bengali dialect by a sylehti person kid, pls be specific on ur...instead of clicheyed and  repeitive practised oratory glossary pls inform how we can use thsi website in more meaningful way... well, my dear kid, i doubt....are u in breeding business....may b u enjoy it live with ur group...but pls dont put the detail here in the message board...put it in your grey cell and only  practise otherwise. [quote author=jags link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=75#85 date=08/13/03 at 22:39:17] My doggy does not, because he is an animal, he chases a doggy to mate. You better pull my doggy in your group, it would be a union of similar minds. [/quote]     pradip roy Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/15/03 at 17:03:41 »    who is this jag.....just get lost from the board....do u think we all are fool...u baboon..... >:(     dipankarc Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/15/03 at 17:12:24 »    kita ba Debu, tumio dekho kelo koiray? Mayorer pekhon  na mayuror pekham? ;D [quote author=Debojit_Ghose (Guest) link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=0#0 date=09/11/01 at 00:12:05]      Many a time we come across Silchari ladies speaking amongst themselves in "kelu"  Those residing outside are prone to this disease.I call it a disease as becase in a bid to hide their originality, the ladies take up this easy way out .Outside Silchar, when you come across a girl who you know belongs to Cachar and she too knows of you belonging to the same place, yet prefers to converse in "kelu".   Are the ladies afraid to speak in their mother tongue ?  As for us boys, being far away from home makes little difference as to the verbal mode of communication we resort to.Everywhere I've been I've found Sylhetis and we had fun .Even now I'm surrounded by 2 Sylhetis though they belong to Shillong.Please , if anyone of you can, persuade the ladies not to try wearing "mayurer pekhom"          Debojit [/quote]     pradip roy Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/15/03 at 17:14:30 »    [quote author=jags link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=75#85 date=08/13/03 at 22:39:17] Burbak hakal,  [/quote] how dare you addressing the total community like that....koi thakia aaiso ba tumi....nijere kita mono kora ba... >:( [quote author=jags link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=75#85 date=08/13/03 at 22:39:17]  Maiyara-o saman tale nachiya jaira praman karte tara khub sylheti... [/quote] tomar kita sylehti maayia loiya kono problem aase ni....na tumar upbringing sylehti maaayar loge hoise na....shuno re ba sylehti maayaia ra khub bhala hoi...aar ita ulta palta lekhio na...tomar mono kita kunu dukkho aaaase ni ba....i mean mmaaiyan sonkranto ;D ;D ;D ;D     rooma_goswami rooma_goswami Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/15/03 at 17:29:55 »    te re ba makal fol....sylehti maayara jodi nijer ichhay jeta tarar mono dhore ota lekhe te tumar problem kita....tumi kita gaau boora aaiso ni....na moral guardian....na kita tumar kono complex aase sylehti maaya loia....prdip e r kotah kita kita thik ni....i supprt shan...because it is u who initiated the slang by calling all the maha adda users by boorbak....why dont you take care of ur vocabulary...jotto shob faltu....typical     shaan er bondhu Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/15/03 at 18:53:34 »    [quote author=jags link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=75#88 date=08/14/03 at 21:29:42] My doggy does not, because he is an animal, he chases a doggy to mate. You better pull my doggy in your group, it would be a union of similar minds. [/quote] perhaps this guy means shaan is a dog and he is having a fun party with his dog firneds. "union of similar mind" writer writes... but one thing is sure...this is a indeed a bad taste.     sweet_sour sweet_sour Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/16/03 at 19:02:19 »    to shaan...i think u have over reacted..... and M...this is really in bad taste....u should behave properly in the public room...... this is nasty....jags..... >:(     confuse Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/17/03 at 08:46:16 »    hmmm.....bhala jamse.... shaan who is this guy...... ::)     Biswajit Biswajit Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/18/03 at 11:13:48 »    [quote author=jags link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=75#88 date=08/14/03 at 21:29:42] Kiddo I did not object to Mahaadda, which I think is a bengalee's basic need. I object to the hypocrisy that is going around here, which you are part of no doubt. Your asinine qualities blinded you from seeing things straight. Indeed there should be a separate thread for discussing serious topics. I wanted there to be one, which I believed a better way of utilising  a local, unbiased web site. Clown like you must also have that much grey matter(I desparately hope) to see the re-repetition of cliches in this room. Donkey, come out and speak honestly, do you care a shit what language the girls speak? I dont give a shit as long as the girls are good honest respectable. Donkey, I know that the enthusiasm people show in this room can be channelised to a greater cause, instead of dragging a dead topic. [/quote] o reba jug Tumi kita ekebare khali ni, borti jug e kunodin oto shobdo korte shunchi na.  ;D ;D But i must congratulate you on your extraordinary vocabulary, which seems to be centered around some choiciest words like doggy and donky. ;D Great going boy!!!!!!!!!! Keep it up. At this rate you will surely make us proud. I am eagerly waiting for the day when JOG - the great silchori gets a Nobel for literature. As for your objection, on the one hand you say that we should concentrate our energies on better things, like social causes you identify yourself with........(I wonder what those are) but on the other hand you agree that adda is second nature to bengalies. So your main objection seems to be one of taste. You will surely agree that taste (of the tongue and of the mind as well) is not a universal constant. Yes there are some things which are almost universaly disliked (an example would be your fixatiation with your canine friend-dogy). But in case of this topic, the wide participation by people of both gender, and the good natured arguments and sallies are I guess proof enough of its more or less universal acceptence. So what is your problem. Lots of silcharies staying away from home actually use this site to keep in touch, to have fun. The basic idea of fun being adda. Adda by its very nature is not very structured, sometimes we start of with a funny topic and end up discussing serious things and vice versa. THE BASIC IDEA IS FUN!!!!!!!!!! AND IF SOMETHING GOOD COMES OFF IT, THATS A BONUS!!!!!!!!!!! SO jug, mug, or lota whatever you are, IF you have any further problems, just get in touch with me. I have just the right medicine for you..............       krishanu_bhattjee krishanu_bhattjee Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/18/03 at 17:09:17 »    ;D ;D speakty not ;D and to Bishwajit.....kichu guchaiyaa diso ba :o :o :o     asiti asiti Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/19/03 at 09:44:58 »    Biswajit... Medicine lag-le amare janai-o Ei bemarer Kabirajee Mohoushodh..achhe ekta.. Tar pore o kaam na hoile...Sylheti Physiotherapy r arek ta version ditam pari... Interested thakle...porer posting e lekhmu.     Biswajit Biswajit Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/19/03 at 13:38:18 »    [quote author=asiti link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=90#101 date=08/19/03 at 09:44:58] Ei bemarer Kabirajee Mohoushodh..achhe ekta.. Tar pore o kaam na hoile...Sylheti Physiotherapy r arek ta version ditam pari... [/quote] Astida Rugir (jog) obosta dekia, amar limited obhigotae to khoi je kobiraji ubiraji na koria ekbare physiotherapy dilaowau bala. What do you say. ;D to lota/jog......... Amrar moshkora shunia tumar hoito aro rag uter. Beshi rag utle astidar loge contact korio......................     asiti asiti Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/19/03 at 14:24:30 »    Ei Physiotherapy ta NEHU te thaka kalin onek research er por udbhaban kora hoichhilo. Amrar faculty ra (most of them UPites, during 1980-1990, amar tenure) , meye der proti ektu beshi YE achhla. Sufferer achhlam amra. Ki kora jai! Cha ar Charminar shoho joge prochondo chinta bhabna. Tokhon abiskrito hoilo "CHEEPA".  Koi-tow parto nai, Shoi-tow parto nai. Hokol "DUSH" minute er majhhe gayeb.     khalid Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/21/03 at 17:04:12 »    koy re sylheti hokol koi gela tora. silchar rer hal hokikot likba. silchar a sundor pori shob kano.(where). balo thako khalid dubai ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D [quote author=Debojit_Ghose (Guest) link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=0#0 date=09/11/01 at 00:12:05]      Many a time we come across Silchari ladies speaking amongst themselves in "kelu"  Those residing outside are prone to this disease.I call it a disease as becase in a bid to hide their originality, the ladies take up this easy way out .Outside Silchar, when you come across a girl who you know belongs to Cachar and she too knows of you belonging to the same place, yet prefers to converse in "kelu".   Are the ladies afraid to speak in their mother tongue ?  As for us boys, being far away from home makes little difference as to the verbal mode of communication we resort to.Everywhere I've been I've found Sylhetis and we had fun .Even now I'm surrounded by 2 Sylhetis though they belong to Shillong.Please , if anyone of you can, persuade the ladies not to try wearing "mayurer pekhom"          Debojit [/quote]     silchari-puri Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/23/03 at 04:53:31 »    Sylheti maat te hokkol puri eu jaane... Kelu-t gaail dile nu Silchari pula hokkole bujhta naay ;) ;) pulaain te bhaala kelu koita paaroin naa, er lagiya purinte kelu maatle tarar piche poroin....dukkher kotha hoilo je naachte naa jaanle uthaan tera  ;D ;D ;D     PaulBabu PaulBabu Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/02/03 at 08:14:50 »    I guess too many people won't disagree that girls are much better linguistically then the guys. They talk a lot and are very comfortable doing that. Most of the time they dont make any sense though.(I guess too many won't disagree on this count as well.) Guyz dont speak in Kelu when they dont have to. When we are among friends, we try to communicate in a medium we are most comfortable with. Cause we want whatever we say to makes sense to the listening party. Girls however give more importance to how they say rather than what they say. Sometimes we gotta do that... but among friends, comeon... I hope I haven't offended anyone.     Guest Guest Can anyone help?   «on: 09/02/03 at 08:48:58 »    Need help     Biley Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/19/03 at 11:45:50 »    oi oi ita abar kita...ami o dekchi..this not only demeans them but also reflects the lack of confidence in these souls..and the so called kelu is so horrible to hear..an example " ami oi kuthay (room) chilam"...this is what a silchari girl once said..name cannot be disclosed     Ajoy Nath Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/10/03 at 12:57:21 »    hi,  bati manushe kelu kota koi karon tara dakyate chay tara kauro taki kom na. tara jane na kun panir mach.     Swaroop Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/14/03 at 13:10:21 »    Oke Guys neverthless the Sichari Girl but not too far the GUY man when they go forward to proposed any GURLs in corner..... I heard them saying so in KELU and m .............. So why the GUY has to go for the KELU GURLS when they are in CACHAR anyway So i guess they shud me called as SHILCASHIAN ......     brishti indianfriend Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/14/03 at 15:11:11 »    ???my god! the never ending argument!!!!!!!!!!!!when r u going to ask this stupid qustion, you know that part of silchari galz who speak kelu are notgoing to change their way at any cost......maan lo...meri baat! ;) Agar prochur dhorjo...then Keep it up! :) :D     sangita kahar Guest silchar park   «on: 10/18/03 at 10:11:11 »    silchar ar parkear ita kita abastha ita kita . Bariya thiki lok jon aiya ai park gola dakhiya boro bodnam kora.park ai rakhom rakha bhala na .parke manush jai  bholo environment paibar laghi kinthu ikhono giya manusha pocha jinishor durgandho ar kadha dakhiya monthobo kora jjjj ita park na "KUCHRA KA KAJANA"     timothy Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/19/03 at 12:27:08 »    why does it matter to the guys of silchar whether gals are speaking KELU or not. all that matters is that they have a medium to share their feelings. so guys ought to be more sensitive when they try to use KELU the fact is that they should be allowed to use KELU in order to come forward in this modern world.     rajashree basu Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/27/03 at 04:33:01 »    Hi! I dont agree with u all  :).All sylheti girls are not same.I being a sylheti girl who never lived in any sylheti para..born and brought up in manipur a place where all languages are practise and all our neighbours were non bengali leave aside sylheti. I got married to a non -sylheti stayed in all the metros,stayed in US for 3 years,,but never forgot my roots ..I never hesitated to talk sylheti even in  downtown  chicago .Even today when i hear sylheti i ran towards it to see who all are there and never hesitate to start talking to them. anyway ,thanks for having a good sylheti site where u meet ur own people Rajashree     Debarati Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/30/03 at 05:20:59 »     Hi :) Ami jani na kene ??? tumra sileti maiyarar hashi urairai.... kron.. ami sileti aar ami shudho... sileti maati.... jekhanai thaki na kene...kelu... ulu... ami koi na! However, I am in Bangalore and many a times... jokhon kunu sileti chela amar loge kotha koito chai ;)....he koi... "tumi kirokhom acho... bhalo ni!!" ;D ..... well... welll, may be they think kelu koile ami impress hoimu :'(... kintu tara janena je...sileti bhasha ..lukaini jaina!!.... :D Therefore..... the same applies to Sileti guys too....not only Sileti gals ;D ;D     Mrs amuk Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/03/03 at 17:53:27 »    Tumrar ita oto din takia sunram aar soijjho hoise na.Sylleti mayerare kelu koite uskay[instigate] ke.......chele ra. Dui premik premika boila g.c collegor kathol gasor tole, suru hoilo kotha barta premik: tumare aajke dekhte je sundor lager premika:oh thik ni tumar lagiya u saji sundar koria. premik:aaichha ekta kotha koi sain tumi dekhte oto sundar kintu elan kathi sylheti mato kene. premika:Kene ita to amar bhasa mattam nani? premik:oy thik ase tumar marji, kintu kalke restaurant jhokon jaimu ektu kelu koileo, amar lagi rego suna. Mayera shadharonoto ektu beshi emotional thake asha kori sobe ita janoin arlagi taio bhavlo je her jhokon bhal lage te ami kelu matmu. Ita to chain system ek mayer thaki arek maye suru hoilo silsila,kintu chain bananir lagi suna ke dilo...........oto banghaia kowar amar sobhav nai. Amar opinion kirokom laglo janain jodi apnera sobe te khub khusi hoimu     baba Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/06/03 at 11:39:55 »    :D     Mrs amuk Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/06/03 at 11:50:19 »    aamrar sylheti lekhte kuno apatti nai,kintu matar shomoy kelu maatmu karon ete amrar ujon baare.naile tolmol kore. ekta ghotona koi ....   ekbaar ami sir or barit porat gesi.tokon 9 ba 10 o aaslam.  rait beshi hoise dekhiya amar bhai newat aise. amra beshi student nae 5/6 jon matro .sir e aamrare bujaira..... ei problem ta kaal kore niye esho. mone thake jeno. aar next chapter aamra kkalkei shuru korbo..... amra bondura golpo choler ....ei tui na kal school e homework ta kore nie aashish ..bujli....    ami : hain , hain, chinta korte hobe na.... aar tui amar jonno oi je , cassette ta bolchilam......     amar bhai ektu dure chair o boiya asil. Hotat Sir e taare koila , ei... ektu dorja ta khule dao to ....!!!!  bhai tae dorja olpo khuliya koilo.....Sir, ola ni ? ....shuniya Sir-e , muchki hashiya koila.....oye ola....   eidike aaye......  kaati dimu tor gola !!!!!!!     Mrs amuk Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/06/03 at 15:27:58 »    Ita kita reba ita to ajob kando karkhana, amar naam loiya manushe lekha shuru kori dise . Ami to ekta reply dilum oije premik premika loiya kintu tadpode je ta dewa hoise ita to ami lekhsi na.  Ita je u korse maye chale ba hisra bhala korse na.Apnar naam kita khub pocha ni je koite loijja lage , te naam jodi oto baje hoi te ino awar dorkar ase ni.Nyle nijer matha lagaiya ekta bhala naam create koroin. Porer dhone pouddari korat jynnaje morba aar syllethi rar naam nosto korba. Ami asha kori aar ei ghatana repeat hoito nai. Admin babure request kori apne ektu nojor rakhba ke ita kore     Shankar_Chakravarti Shankar_Chakravart Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/08/03 at 07:22:51 »    Dear Mrs Amuk,  Why don't you register yourself with Mahaadda. :-/ That automatically will protect  you from " friendly " writter. :-X BTW, I have not written anything !  ::)     Mrs amuk Mrs_amuk Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/08/03 at 08:46:02 »    apnar kothae to lager apneu shei firendly writer     Shankar_Chakravarti Shankar_Chakravart Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/08/03 at 11:07:08 »    Dear Mrs Amuk, Ita rei koy bala karmer kharap fall. :o Tumare “rakhkha kabach” ta dilo keda?  Loge loge phal diya registry kori laiso. Okhon Kumor bandhiya aiso amar loge jhagra korte.  Barit ar kuno kam nai ni tumar? ???     Mrs amuk Mrs_amuk Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/13/03 at 14:51:43 »    barir shob kaam shesh koria aaisi.  aar jhogra na!!! amar mul kotha ta asil,aamra sylethi koile weightless feel kori !! eitar lagi ei obosta!!!! ma babae syleti shikaite loijja pain. bhaboin fluent sylheti kotha baarta vulgar shunae.    ei concept ki bhabe change kora jae ?     guest Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/14/03 at 00:49:01 »    TUMRAR LAGIYA EKGU SLOWGUN PAISHI RE BA "chalchya chalbya ..............ekhi topic chalbay"     MLA Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/27/03 at 00:48:49 »    :o kita  shankar babu ........... :o mrs amuk.......  kita tumrar prem suru hoilo nire ba?  Bhala chalai jaoooooooo ;D     Romi Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/13/03 at 01:04:31 »    Kita beta tumra sab auwa ni... ita simple topic loiya oto bar bari kene........... simple logic re bai.... kelu matle selerar attention besi pawa jai na ni  :o.... sichararor furi ra r kuno baktobbo thakle janaien....     ami ek jajabor Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/15/03 at 10:21:40 »    ok, romi, if its true that meyera kelu koile, chelera attention dey, then i would like to ask u, why guys give attention to those gals, that menas wht?????????? ;) ??? ;D     babu72 Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/15/03 at 20:07:45 »    [quote author=dipak link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=15#27 date=02/14/03 at 02:44:33] Dear Ladies and gentleman I'm also from silchar. I found that most of the girls are like to speak in kelu. There have so many reason. I'm not going to discuss about the reason. The real fact is that we the silcharities are prefering to make copy. Not only the silchar people, specially the bengali people likes to make copy so nicely. We can't balme to girls only, some boys also like to speak in kelu. We the modern people are prefering to speak in varities languages. If you're talking about the silcharies girls, Yah, it's true that they like to show themselves too much. Let me tell you one latest joke in favour of this topic. One day I visited one place in our locality, the ladies were from silchar, but she likes to speak in kelu. Wherever she can't speak in Kelu as like as Kolkata people. On that time I asked her so nicely, r'u from silchar or not? She replied I'm from dhamdam. I got bit wonder, Lastly she replied that she stayed in silchar for 15 years and her pronounce has fully changed. But the real fact is that her born and bord up from malugram. Thanking you [/quote] e re ba - amar to monohoy bout koshto korleo tomar moto english lekhtam partam nay. tumi ek kaam koro - sylheti-u lekho. shobe bhujte paarbo.     Mr Amuk Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/19/03 at 16:04:20 »    [quote author=Mrs amuk link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=120#123 date=11/13/03 at 14:51:43] barir shob kaam shesh koria aaisi.  aar jhogra na!!! amar mul kotha ta asil,aamra sylethi koile weightless feel kori !! eitar lagi ei obosta!!!! ma babae syleti shikaite loijja pain. bhaboin fluent sylheti kotha baarta vulgar shunae.    ei concept ki bhabe change kora jae ? [/quote] Apnar katha gula amar buko bidhi geche bhuchoin ni ba? Satti apnar katha hridoyo giya baari marche amar.     hifzur Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/21/03 at 09:07:04 »    ??? I don't think a inteligent girl (Sylheti) prefer KELLU  than syheti b/c its directly related to her identity.Yes, i know a few girls prefer and they all have identity crisis and they suffer from inferiror complexity either due to lack of knowledge or their social set up.I know more than five language and staying outside but still when i got a sylheti boy or girl ,i enjoyed the moment with typical sylheti chatting. so, one of my request to psedu kelu MAIYA, KELLU CHARO ARR SYLHETI BOLO, KUNO LJJAR BISYO NAI.WE HAVE BRIGHT HISTORY. KHUDA HAFIZ NAMASKAR     YourMan Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 03/22/04 at 16:00:31 »    ??? Why don you ask the silchar gals why they prefer to speak in Kelu..If any Silchar Gal Read this message..dare to reply!! ???     pazeb Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 03/23/04 at 13:07:58 »    sob syleti meyera muteo kelu koi na.ar ami nijeo sunchi silcherer chelera koi  kita je silcherer meyera khub sunder dekhte kintu jokon tara kotha koi tokon son sundorjo e jai giya.tar lagiya koiram sob syleti meyera ekrokom na aber sob syleti chelerao ekrokom na.chelerer to show off aro besi kore.delhi te vacation yer lagiya gurte geleo silcher o aiya hindi koi ar abroad gele to kothai nai.so sob ekrokom hoi na.     chayan26 chayan26 Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 03/23/04 at 16:47:10 »    b'coz they think what they r speaking is something inferior than the usual. this is purely wrong. i am syleti and i am proud of speaking this enen in the big gatherings also     chirodeep Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/04/04 at 08:06:25 »    ::) hey:everybody has got his/her own right to speak in what ever language he/she wants.if u can't then stop .tumse nehi hota tow chup baitho.     shamim Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/11/04 at 15:20:16 »    [quote author=Really? link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=0#9 date=10/09/01 at 03:18:57] Turn ur yhinking caps on and start thinking. ada jol khaiya lagi jaao. ekdin na ekdin biroiboi kene sylheti purira kelu koi. personally, i believe that they want to have an air of superiority around them. and in the process they try out many things. kintu bondhu ekta kotha achhe na "jotoi catwalk koro na kene kawi, tumi mayur hoite partai na". the faster they understand that, the better. [/quote]     gopa Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/12/04 at 19:19:24 »    i see the most irritating and useless languaghe is syleti..it does nothing except one thing which is -it totally spoils your image..it's the worst form of bengali language..girls who are educated at least who has respect for their bengali language will never ever speak syleti..a third class language..be smart guys--     Silacharer pua Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/13/04 at 13:53:42 »    MS Gopa, I dont don't know where u actually belong to, but if u r from silchar itself, or precisely a sylhety, then how could u use such degraded words which ur parents use to speak? I per i know, laguage & water get changed in every 5 kilometers... its for information the language being spoken in KOLKATA is also not a pure Bengali... U can find different accents in different regions which we identfy as bengali only...... and  I ' d like to know do u think all Bangladeshi s r 3rd class people who speak sylhety language? its my advice that change ur outlook.... if u prtefer to speak in kelu, its totally your concern but u cant use those degraded words for those who love to speak slyhety. bujhchoin ni kita koichi?     romi. Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/13/04 at 21:36:59 »    Kutti, Aar na to kita, tora jokhoni kunu maiyya fas je sylheti hoiyya kelu koi, baas tora o arombo hoi jas. e.g "Ki re kuthai jao"? "Bala achis niki"? "Gatar maje pore gechilam, pek lege geche".  ;D Baki mone asche na bade bolbo.     Romi romi Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/13/04 at 22:06:11 »    hey Imposter Who are you... Stop using my Nick....     amdadul hoque Guest hi bondu   «on: 04/14/04 at 02:00:23 »    nobu boi sager sagotom amar  intarnet prio sokol  bonduk i loveu amdad     amdadul hoque Guest hi bondu   «on: 04/14/04 at 02:03:34 »    nobu boi sager sagotom amar  intarnet prio sokol  bonduk i loveu amdad     budu Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/14/04 at 12:05:36 »    Debajit, You have raised a genuine point. This has been a point of discussion in many a sylheti portals but it is quite unfortunate that we embrace another language to hide our own identity. Is it because the sylheti language sounds rough? or is it because we feel ashamed in presence of Kelu to speak our language. Nijer bhasha re konodin o neglect koriyo na. Sylheti hoia sylheti na matley ita loizzar kotha.     amda Guest hi   «on: 04/15/04 at 01:40:28 »    nobu borser sobecca 1411 sokol  banglar  femik ke i loveu jodi  keho  bondu  hote  caw  tobe  e mail  kore  jene  naw amdad1@hotmail.com     amdadul hoque Guest hi   «on: 04/15/04 at 01:42:05 »    nobu borser sobecca 1411 sokol  banglar  femik ke i loveu jodi  keho  bondu  hote  caw  tobe  e mail  kore  jene  naw amdad1@hotmail.com     Cool DudewithaHotAttitude Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/15/04 at 11:20:30 »    Hello everyone,   This topic is getting interesting day by day and the remarks made by some are really interesting. Though I am not from silchar, it does not barr me from being a sylethi. I am a hardcore Sylheti and I am proud to be one. But the problem is that I get to speak in Sylheti once or twice a year only coz I m living outside India. Anywayz I fullfill my desire through ur site.  Great work dude.     Silacharer pua Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/15/04 at 14:31:41 »    Hi "Cool dude with............"  welcome here... I really liked youe sentimets regarding sylhety.... but most of the people nowadays, especially girls find it shameful in being identified as a sylhety ..... really terrible. anyways..... keep visiting here bye..keep safe     Biswajit Acharjee Biswajit_Acharjee Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/16/04 at 09:06:39 »    Kita kor tai ita dia... Maat le matauk... na maat le nai...Silcharor kuno maia a to ai thread o aaia debate korer na.. Te tumra khamka debate kor rai kene? ???     Cool Dudewithahotattitude Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/17/04 at 14:09:36 »    Thanx for caring bout my sentiments.     amdad Guest sylheti bondu   «on: 04/19/04 at 01:13:47 »    sylheter  nai  cono  bondu  j  amay  korbe  akti  e mail jodi  bondu  hote  caw  tahole li kona  amay  akti  e mail bar  bar  koli amar  e mail  tbo  pai na  kono  e mail asay asay  bar bar  likeci  citi  hi sylheti  bondur  gay j di  mon  cay  korio  e mail  bondu  pahibe  amay e mail     ....  amdad1@hotmail.com     Ganu Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/19/04 at 02:54:17 »    This is my candid opinion : There is nothing wrong with the girls speaking kelu as long as they do it for communication with a broader world. It is a bit shameful to disguise her sylheti skin in kelu skin to attract the romeos. But if communicating in sylheti affects establishing a good rapport, which she thinks could be achieved with kelu, whats wrong in speaking kelu? I do not feel the necessity for resentment against the ghatis, which I feel people often express in this room. To end, a humble request.. if still people declare non co-operation with kelu, they should also diligently copy the english/hindi slangs in sylheti which will give us a sylheti slang dictionary.... a language can never be self sufficient, however rich, if it has to borrow slangs from other languages. [/quote]     Roni Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/21/04 at 23:07:03 »    hi piya, :) read ur topic in silchar.com. however i would like to make frenship with u. i'm a guy frm shillong as well, now working in delhi for the last 7 months. if ur r interested on making frenship with me, pliz write to me at romi8marin@rediffmail.com. waitin 2 hear frm u Roni NB: i also belong 2 a sylheti family.     sunil mohan das Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 04/22/04 at 01:12:44 »     Baangla bhashaaay koto rokomer dialects aacchhey ,chinta kora jaay naa.jemon dhorain - Borishali, Daccaiya,Chitagangi Nayakhali,Habiganji ,ETC.West Bengal e o onek dialects aacchhe.Kelu ekta link language.Kelute kotha koile kono aapotti thaaka uchit noy. Eta aami mone kori.           amdad Guest hi   «on: 04/22/04 at 01:33:00 »    hi  amar  desher  mati   aju  dilena  amay  konu  boadu tbu   hoi  na  ami  nirash amdad1@hotmail.com     amdadul hoque Guest bangaladeshi   «on: 05/09/04 at 00:48:03 »    i loveu  bangladeshi hi email  adeesh amdad1@hotmail.com     Kool_Syletthi Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/24/04 at 08:57:37 »    I want to ask u Gopa if ur parents are bad looking will u like to throw them away from ur house.Its is a fact that sylethis are one of the most samrt ppl of the world.Sylethi speaking ppl can learn a language very quickly n very clearly. I am proud to be a sylethi n find no shame to talk in sylethi even though i live in Guwahati. [quote author=gopa link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=135#136 date=04/12/04 at 19:19:24] i see the most irritating and useless languaghe is syleti..it does nothing except one thing which is -it totally spoils your image..it's the worst form of bengali language..girls who are educated at least who has respect for their bengali language will never ever speak syleti..a third class language..be smart guys-- [/quote] :o     mrinmoyb mrinb Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/25/04 at 07:40:18 »    person who feels insulted to be recognised as a Syleti has no right to surf this website....guest are always wecome, but not scoundrels......     mrinmoyb mrinb Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/25/04 at 08:19:57 »    Dear Ms Gopa,                    Your comments about "Syleti-Bhasha" clearly reveals ur attitude n mind set, that can be defined in one word, 'STINKY'.......       B,Santanu B,Santanu Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/25/04 at 09:03:35 »    [quote author=gopa link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=135#136 date=04/12/04 at 19:19:24] i see the most irritating and useless languaghe is syleti..it does nothing except one thing which is -it totally spoils your image..it's the worst form of bengali language..girls who are educated at least who has respect for their bengali language will never ever speak syleti..a third class language..be smart guys-- [/quote] Well Gopa i really wonder you " see" or you are Blind. Language is a means of communication and it does only one thing..helps in telling the other person what you want to say. Why blame syleti...infact by communicating in english only you are spoiling your image..forget about syleti. Infact girls who are educated, unless a moron like you, will respect any language. Smartness doesn't comes from the dialect you are speaking but the way you are speaking and beleive me, your communication irrespective of the language used, casts a big doubt on your mental attitude and upbringing.     aukal_talukdar Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/26/04 at 03:43:03 »    I doubt Gopa is a sylheti and/or a girl. If she is indeed one, she probably belongs to that set of nincompoop women, somewhat numerous in our community - the ones that chirp, look pretty and speak kelu but not much else - rarely do they have a career, almost always their opinions focus on cutex and nail polish and they are often found saying hi in english especially when they are in a puja pandals amidst Dadus and Thakumas. Beyond that Hi however the english is almost always somewhat broken. If Gopa is indeed a Sylheti Girl, she needs to be given proactive derision. Any person, boy or girl (or man or woman) that chooses to disown her roots is a dimwit and needs to be treated as such.     guloo Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 06/30/04 at 19:07:40 »    [quote author=gopa link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=135#136 date=04/12/04 at 19:19:24] i see the most irritating and useless languaghe is syleti..it does nothing except one thing which is -it totally spoils your image..it's the worst form of bengali language..girls who are educated at least who has respect for their bengali language will never ever speak syleti..a third class language..be smart guys-- [/quote] Your words are thought provoking. It lets one wonder about your mental and physical condition. Did any catastrophe happen when she (or he ?) was born? Did doctors mishandled her? Was she crying in kelu after birth? physical features apart ....       Ashit Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/07/04 at 09:14:52 »    This is nothing,                   Aamra koi nani : DESHI KUTTA , BILATI DAAK. ;)     mrinmoyb mrinb Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/14/04 at 08:02:37 »    Ekdom thik koiso bondu.....     Silchar_nibasi Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/14/04 at 23:15:18 »    [quote author=mrinmoyb link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=150#156 date=06/25/04 at 07:40:18] person who feels insulted to be recognised as a Syleti has no right to surf this website....guest are always wecome, but not scoundrels...... [/quote] Hold it right there dude! There are lots of non-sylhetis living in Silchar as well. We speak bengali dialect of Dhaka and would not be very proud  to recognize myself as a Sylheti. You should take your posting back. I am very much proud of the bengali culture we get from Dhaka/komilla.     soumya Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/15/04 at 18:53:34 »    [quote author=Silchar_nibasi link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=150#163 date=07/14/04 at 23:15:18] Hold it right there dude! There are lots of non-sylhetis living in Silchar as well. We speak bengali dialect of Dhaka and would not be very proud  to recognize myself as a Sylheti. You should take your posting back. I am very much proud of the bengali culture we get from Dhaka/komilla. [/quote] I agree. Why do people in this room BLINDLY,STUPIDLY support Sylheti, and hate Bengali ? Stupids! Sylheti is child of Bengali, it has cousins languages which are practised in Barak Valley too . The dumbo's have no ideas of their own, someone says 'Hail Sylheti' and thats it, the dance ritual started! What you guys want? A separatist movement for Sylheti land? and screw up whatever harmony is present?     barak-barak Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/15/04 at 19:07:34 »    Hello How many people in this room adore Sylheti? I guess..    almost all.  (There are guests who speak different dialects and even languages) How many adore Bengali?   I guess ... almost all. How many show bad feeling about Calcuttans and Calcutta itself because they do not speak Sylheti ? I guess ... QUITE A FEW.. ! And why is that??     mrinmoyb mrinb Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/17/04 at 10:52:07 »    To hate is very easy....even easier is to love....all the languages irrespective of the size of population speaking it, holds equal respect in our hearts.....     Raad Awni Guest looking for my lover in india   «on: 07/25/04 at 04:59:55 »            Hi every person round the world                                                I am an educated man searching to find my lost love in India,who stopped                  writing to me ,or the letters not arrived to Iraq because of the war                  & I tried so many times to contact her in India but no answer,the                          last letter that I received was before a year....                  So please any person read this letter could share me my searching,                  to contact my lost lover on the following address & inform me how to                  contact her ,If any one has a contact with her ,please tell her that                  I am still loving her & she is the only woman in my life who gave me                       real touch of a real woman & real love through the years of our                            corressponding ...                    Please contact me  on my E-mail in Iraq                    (raadmoon01@yahoo.com).                     My Name :Raad Awni , I am living in Iraq,Baghdad                                                                                                   ( The Addresss of my love in India)                                                                      Name: May-Grace Shylla                                                                                    Living Place:                                                                                          Shilla Villa                                            Laitumkhrah ,Police Point                                            Shillong-793003                                            Meghalaya-India                                      Tell.No.in India( 364-224149)                                                                      With Hope                                                                                  RAAD AWNI     Munna_Bhai_MBBS Munna_Bhai_MBBS Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/26/04 at 20:59:06 »    kelu bolle somaje dam pawa jai...Bhalo chele pawa jai..silchar theke bai re aale r sylethi kotha bolle public strange kore dekbe...tar jonnyo e mayera kelu bole...     guest Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/28/04 at 07:45:11 »    [quote author=Munna_Bhai_MBBS link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=165#168 date=07/26/04 at 20:59:06] kelu bolle somaje dam pawa jai...Bhalo chele pawa jai..silchar theke bai re aale r sylethi kotha bolle public strange kore dekbe...tar jonnyo e mayera kelu bole... [/quote] Sabash boy sabash! Thats the spirit. Instead of dancing with others and thinking with the rear is stupid. Speak your mind girls!     mrinmoyb mrinb Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/28/04 at 13:02:12 »    Kelu koa ta kharap kichu naa.....kintu nijer origin bhuli jawa ta bhul.....     RAZON Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 07/28/04 at 20:51:40 »    [quote author=Really? link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=0#9 date=10/09/01 at 03:18:57] Turn ur yhinking caps on and start thinking. ada jol khaiya lagi jaao. ekdin na ekdin biroiboi kene sylheti purira kelu koi. personally, i believe that they want to have an air of superiority around them. and in the process they try out many things. kintu bondhu ekta kotha achhe na "jotoi catwalk koro na kene kawi, tumi mayur hoite partai na". the faster they understand that, the better. [/quote]     hussain ahmed Guest Re:  sylheti girls   «on: 08/20/04 at 23:35:59 »    dear evry body hi how r you i am hussain send me mail thanks hussain     pseudosylheti Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 08/28/04 at 03:59:33 »    I am neither a sylheti nor a kelu! in fact i belong to bangalore. However, having spent 6+ years in silchar (11th, 12th and REC), I have developed an affinity for the place. Even now, when I meet my college buddies from Silchar, I switch to sylheti(whatever little I know  :)). The very fact that I am visiting Silchar.com and am actually replying to this rather large chain of messages proves the point that Sylheti should be spoken with pride and dignity. Let no woman belittle this unique language...     Nostalgic...Jayasmita Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/12/04 at 17:59:55 »    :)Revitalising communication!! sylheti is awesome and m proud of being 1..but this not at all means that i `ve an apathy towards other languages. we should see the comfort in doing things..if some1`s comfortable in speaking "sylheti-kelu" then being the audience we should listen to them and may be to some extent enjoy  ;D their to-be smartness(as they think)..okhon koto jon re koitam tumra bhul kolkati koirai so tumra either speak total sylheti or pura kolkati..pseudo kotha koiya lab nai sunte boro kharap lage..   okhon if any1 speaks in other languages then that does not mean rhythmic fumbling ???.. all is self realisation. we cant stop gals speaking the way they are by simply creating a voice box over here rather best thing we can do is to leave it unto them...our work is communicating and we are doing that whatever may be d language...india is secular and maintain itz integrity!!! :) And About SILCHAR  :'(.....i`m missing it like any thing.here at pune i could not find any silcharities...nijer jaegar lok nai, boro kharap lage..nijar bhasaye kotha koite pari na,boro afsos hoi..so i keep calling my parents...i really feel Nostalgic!! :-[ and the thought that vacations are near overwhelm me..i go crazy really..  :D Silchar's the Best Place On Earth!! :D Nowhere else can i feel at-home other than really being at home in silchar. Viva-La-Silchar!! ;D and my fellow silcharities, bondhura plz tumra initiative niya rastha ghat ektu thik koro na..boro kosto hoi silcharer rasta dekhle..ami oto durr thika other than pleading u ar kichue korte partam na..do it!! do it !! ;) My Message :- "we are the future and ours is the future...make silchar a better place, spread the smile and may it persists!! a beautiful mind like urs can make silchar a wonderful abode."  :) :) To The Youth : " almost anything u do will seem insignificant but it is very important that u do it. u must be the change u want to see in the world." and remember, " world stands to let pass the man who knows where he's going."  ;) dats all from me now.... signing off jayasmita dutta :D NRS (non resident silcharite)     Rupam Rupam Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/13/04 at 12:17:39 »    By any chance,are you Holy Cross School, Rangirkhari 1993 batch?     mrinmoyb mrinb Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/13/04 at 13:25:55 »    [quote author=Nostalgic...Jayasmita link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=165#174 date=09/12/04 at 17:59:55] jayasmita dutta :D NRS (non resident silcharite) [/quote] Ita kichu diso.... ;D ;D     nayna nayna Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/14/04 at 05:08:27 »    KELU???? wht is KELU??? do u all mean kolkatar ?? How dare u....Kolkatar lok-ke pode othale!!!!!!! Tomra shobai je eto bodo bodo kotha bolcho....tomra ki shobai ki sylheti??? :o :o I mean shobar ki  sylhete jonmo? Tahole talk about sylhet....abt sylheti gaan,sylheti film....ect.. shudhu kotha bollei hoy naa.kelu bole kono bhasha aache ki? Jetake tomra kelu bolo aami bolbo shuddho..... tomra sylhet shommondhe kono kothai bolona...aacha tomra sylhet dekhte kemon? Aami to sylheti noi.. amar kotha bad dao aamar babar-o sylhete jonmo naa. aami khub jani ...shobaito sharkkhon hindi gaan,hindite joke kore thako....kintu girls der pechone laagar bahana chi shudhu. Ebar theke tomra shobai sylheti gaan r joke bolbe >:( >:( Are tomra ki bolbe ....sylhet shommondhe tomader kono ggyan-e nei.....tomra-to shob "HINDI BHUT" girls prefer to speak kelu....bcoz kelu is bengali.And sylhet ... is... in... bengal"     heheh Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/14/04 at 06:42:00 »    nayna Devi hehehehehe hehehehe aar kita koitam buji lao heheheheheh  ;D ;D     allout allout Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/14/04 at 12:11:28 »    kita reba sob bhala aacho ni .....Aaij prothom aami ino lekhiar ....Topic ta boro interesting ....Koyekdin aaghe ekta Cinema Dekchi ...."Teacher e english e Science poraitra....Ek chapter sesh hoar pore master e koila ...OK ....ek side thakia student ektai koilo OK ....kintu aarek side aaro ekta student e koilo "ok... na"...Je student e OK koilo ...he tumar neglect koria koilo je ...College o Hindir translater raakhte laaghe ..aanari student jetai English bujhe na ....Ita sunia jegu e "OK na " koichil higu e koilo "Jo apni maatri bhasa ki sammaan na kar sake ..wok apni maa ka kya sammann karegha ........" Bujlai to moral ....sobe .... Chalo aabar aaimu ne Allout ;D ;D     nayna nayna Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/14/04 at 16:01:07 »    Tahole....Martee-bhashata ki....."BONDHUGON"      "BANGLAA" thik kinaa? Sylheti noy kintu..... Aar banglaa....shuddho R  oshuddho bhabe loke bole thake.... That's it........."BONGO MAAER DORIDRO SHONTAANGON"   open ur mind................................. :) :)     dewrose Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/14/04 at 17:38:54 »    suno,why do sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu?the person who has created it doesn't know sylheti or wht?if he is so sylheti premik to kene sylheti tei lekhlo na?.ar sudu ki meyerai sylheti chariya kelu koi ,kene chelera koi na?. >:(.chelera to chal marte ustad.    amer mote syleti is also a part of bangla and kelu is also a part of bangla .te je jetate comfortable feel kore setate kotha koilei hoi.ar kita chelera ki kelu parena dekhiya jealous feel korer ni? ;)     nayna nayna Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/14/04 at 17:57:40 »    Welldone  Dewrose!!!!!!!!! 8) 8) keep it up........... :)     B,Santanu B,Santanu Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/14/04 at 19:19:16 »    Agreed Nayna....so it seems you always sing kelu gaan, watch kelu films and share kelu jokes with your friends. Well done...hats off to you. What a logic....if someone speaks sylheti he has to sing and tell jokes in sylheti. Phew...sure some opening must be there for you in the White House. And remember no language has divisions like " shuddho" and    "ashuddho". Coz language is not bound by any rules or proforma...its merely a way of expressing ones feelings. There is no superior or inferior amongst languages. And Dewrose...who says chelera kelu koi na...nishchoy koi. Tumi ekta nutun thread kene lekho na.."Why sylheti boys prefer to speak kelu? " The original thread was posted to discuss for those sylheti girls, who at home speak sylheti with their family, but once out on the road speak kelu in such a way that sylheti is untouchable. Bujhecho ebar..chinta kore likhbe na hole ogyanota bhitore "hamiye" jabe.     nayna nayna Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/14/04 at 19:37:57 »    hamiye jabe?? ki bolcho? tomra ki kore bhable je meyerai tai kore??? kun pondit bollo? chelera badite sylheti r baire kelu bolena bole ki kono proman aache tomar kache? Asole bollamna meyedere nichu korar tomadre mojjagoto dosh.Dhoro meyera jodio bole tahole kar jonne...??? Tomader....cheleder jonneito.Karon tomar chelera mukhe sylheti to bolo, kintu mishte chao kelu meyeder shathe. Aashole aamader deshta ekhono purush prodhan-i royegeche..  Ebhabe thakle kokhono unnoti hobena.Tomra meyedere nie jata bolo kintu meye chada tomadre astivto kothay???? Meyedere shomman koro taholei dekhbe ekta meye tomar jonne ki korta pare......     Count_Dracula Count_Dracula Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/14/04 at 21:29:22 »    Innocent souls....... Dictionary says...Ruminating....means Chewing Cud. Over and Over again...Over the Years.......the eternal tunnel of soap opera...the never-ending rumination....[B]Oh! Me![/B]     allout allout Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/15/04 at 12:14:33 »    Hi Nayna ..... Shylethi bhasa loia dekhi tumi mara mari koritrai ..Ekbar koirai Bangla bhasa kita aamra bujhi na ..aarekbar koirai Meye  Manush re aamra bujhi na ....Aabar koirai Meye aamrar laaghi bahut kichu korte parbo ...Jaante paari ni ..kita kita meye korte parbo ...Ita kita koirai rego aamrar astivto nai ni na kita ....Count da olpo bujhao to nayna re ..... Allout  ;D ;D     TaarCheera TaarCheera Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/15/04 at 12:19:06 »    ekta gaan suncho ni.."HASEENA MAAN JAYEGI" ' chiti pahar chore    marne ke waste, Ladki bole KELU    Ladko ke waste." JAMCHE ... ULUSTUL.... ;D     dewrose Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/15/04 at 18:02:48 »    sanatanu i don thv so much faltu time in my hand to write abt why do boyz speaks kelu?u must be hving good knowledge abt girls ;),wht they speak in home and wht they speak outside home.nice keep it up.why dont u create a thread abt girls and their behaviours which we ourself may not know being a girl ourself.why everytime after girls yaar.if some girls feels good to speak kelu outside home thn let them na why so critisism.if u boyz go to any interview will u answer the questions in syleti?.are charo re 'hameye jabe'kouo giya interview te to kon ekdom ranking 1st hoibo. ;D.syleti is a good language but it cant be spoken every where .u cant speak syleti every where .its the truth and all knows tht well.     mrinmoyb mrinb Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/16/04 at 12:29:47 »    Kou kou...kelu koile kunu khoti nai...kintu Syhleti bhulio naa re go...     Rupam Rupam Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/16/04 at 16:53:14 »    Never in the history of mankind, has so much been said about such an insignificant and inconspicuous topic as this. I am vella (jobless) alright, but this just goes on to prove that, there are people in the world who are more vella than me. What a waste.     dewrose Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/16/04 at 17:09:01 »    yes rupam , i agree 100% with u.and mrinmoy no on ecan neglect his or her mother tongue.so no proshno of syleti bhuli jaoa. ;)     TaarCheera TaarCheera Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/21/04 at 12:32:57 »    dewrose..tumi sylleti na bhulia amrare uddar korcho...rokka hoiche ....aamra bhojon gaimu ney..tumi jey mother tongue bhulrai na itar lagia.... :) :)     dewrose Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/21/04 at 14:22:19 »    ami keure uddaer korer lagiya boisi na.tomer id ar tomer nijer character je eto mile ita tumer message dekhlei bhujha jai. altu faltu kotha na koia je message age dichi ita poro tarpor kotha koio ,ok. naile jodi ekta tar o thik thakiy athake ita o chiri jaibo ;D     sudhu_tomar_jonna sudhu_tomar_jonna Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/28/04 at 14:43:59 »    otai abar kalu koin ne chale mane pramik ra phona koiba "tomar ajka asar kotha chilo na" r obai sunbai "oi tui kandre kane ba" otau oilo giya amrar silatee mayer kalu kotha .apnara buchoin ne kane ita r ki impression banae bhala . bisah koriya amrar moto chale ra re ;) ;) ;) ;D ;D ;D :D :D     dhupbatti Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 09/28/04 at 22:58:46 »    suno re go nayna rani ota fotong fotong mat bad deo aar barit giya poro.aasoin tain bhashon dewat baccha poori hala mater namuna sunle mono hoi thakur ma aasoin jao shoni barit panch shika diya barit dhuko giya     Tilak_kxjerpua Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/29/04 at 18:34:39 »    Ita thik mayain te ita kichu impress korar lagia u kalu maorin ....... ekhon kuno mayai jodi e msg poroin te to tele begune jolia uthba ... kintu majhe majhe emon o kalu shuna jai j "oi j jalar here dia chad dekha jachche" ....     Tilak_kxjerpua Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/29/04 at 18:38:55 »    Ita thik mayain te ita kichu impress korar lagia u kalu maorin ....... ekhon kuno mayai jodi e msg poroin te to tele begune jolia uthba ... kintu majhe majhe emon o kalu shuna jai j "oi j janalar here dia chad dekha jachche"(kau kau koin) ....     aukal_talukdar Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 10/30/04 at 22:15:31 »    Why the criticism of Sylheti girls speaking Kelu? At a very basic level, it could just be that the boys somehow find the girls out of reach when they speak Kelu. I think it is a part of the mating process in our parts of the world. Once the lips lock (or the hearts meet), the girl forgets Kelu. The bigger fear is as follows - the girl grows up, gets married and has a Sylheti baby. She then tells the kid, when he or she learns Sylheti, "Baje Kotha Bolbe Na".. I have seen that happen way too many times with my boudis. Offcourse we choose to ignore the boudis in those cases. Why Sylheti cannot be spoken everywhere? IMHO, it can be. Only if you decide that it needs to be given the respect it deserves. Somehow the legacy earlier was that Calcutta and the version of Bengali spoken there was the culturally sophisticated bengali spoken in sophisticated circles. The Calcuttas still have the hangover - even though their days of glory went with the Brits. I speak Sylheti everywhere - even in Calcutta or even in the Puja Pandal here in the Bay Area in the presence of very beautiful Kelu Boudis. Damn - my Konkani wife from Bombay speaks Sylheti (and not Bengali). She doesn't know where not to speak Sylheti and she doesn't give a damn either. Besides, in professional circles (and interviews) one would normally make do with English - do you really need Bengali there too? If course of Cal Bongs are there, they whisper if I am from Bangladesh - every time! I respond with a smile (or a smirk more often) and talk about us Sylhetis. Surprise, surprise -  some of them discover their "Bangaal" roots. [quote author=dewrose link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=180#188 date=09/15/04 at 18:02:48] sanatanu i don thv so much faltu time in my hand to write abt why do boyz speaks kelu?u must be hving good knowledge abt girls ;),wht they speak in home and wht they speak outside home.nice keep it up.why dont u create a thread abt girls and their behaviours which we ourself may not know being a girl ourself.why everytime after girls yaar.if some girls feels good to speak kelu outside home thn let them na why so critisism.if u boyz go to any interview will u answer the questions in syleti?.are charo re 'hameye jabe'kouo giya interview te to kon ekdom ranking 1st hoibo. ;D.syleti is a good language but it cant be spoken every where .u cant speak syleti every where .its the truth and all knows tht well. [/quote]     arka Guest katha bolte chaimayeder sathe   «on: 11/08/04 at 13:00:21 »    :'(     jheemlee Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/15/04 at 17:38:23 »    arka..keno kadchogo!!!!! tomar shathe shobai dushthumi korche bujhi ???? kedonaa aamake bolo aami tomake help korbo... ;)     jo Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/23/04 at 16:47:04 »    hi i am talking from bangalore i am kxj     Jo Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/23/04 at 17:11:33 »    i like each and every parson if he/she i am missing too much silchar kxj all the area of assam because from last 5 year i am in bangalore.  i completed my graduation in kxj college and DNIIT course from Silchar after i came here in bangalore for MCA.  only once i went sil and Kxj for durga puja after i came here.  Dont mind i am telling my those things for you people because i do not have any friend and i am missing everythings.so it was only my wonderful moment which i was spent in silchar and kxj .  i like each and everybody if she/he. MISSING U PEOPLE     Jo Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/23/04 at 17:24:35 »    [quote author=jheemlee link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=195#200 date=11/15/04 at 17:38:23] arka..keno kadchogo!!!!! tomar shathe shobai dushthumi korche bujhi ???? kedonaa aamake bolo aami tomake help korbo... ;) [/quote] JOY here from bangalore i worte my name as Jo Really very nicely u people r writing those converted thing from bengoli to english. who ever you r this is very cool Tell me how is our NIIT branch of Silchar Subir sir and partho sir Surojit sir is still their or they left the job. please donot mind i donot know u and i am telling those thing for u.  i have been staying in bangalore from last five years.  i completed my graduation in Kxj college and DIIT from silchar.  I am missing everybody in silchar and Kxj thats why i am writing for u. Do not mind. Next year i will try to come.  In five year only once i went for durga puja. Really i am missing each and everything there in silchar and Kxj.  You people r so lucky to stay over there wiht your parents and friends and specially so nice and beautiful town like Silchar. In bangalore everythings is there but life is not there.  People r earning money only or nothing is there.  Silchar is so nice place i am missing each and every corner of Silchar and Karimganj. MISSING U PEOPLE     bumba Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/23/04 at 20:39:57 »    [quote author=Nostalgic...Jayasmita link=board=0011&num=1000185125&start=165#174 date=09/12/04 at 17:59:55] :)Revitalising communication!! sylheti is awesome and m proud of being 1..but this not at all means that i `ve an apathy towards other languages. we should see the comfort in doing things..if some1`s comfortable in speaking "sylheti-kelu" then being the audience we should listen to them and may be to some extent enjoy  ;D their to-be smartness(as they think)..okhon koto jon re koitam tumra bhul kolkati koirai so tumra either speak total sylheti or pura kolkati..pseudo kotha koiya lab nai sunte boro kharap lage..   okhon if any1 speaks in other languages then that does not mean rhythmic fumbling ???.. all is self realisation. we cant stop gals speaking the way they are by simply creating a voice box over here rather best thing we can do is to leave it unto them...our work is communicating and we are doing that whatever may be d language...india is secular and maintain itz integrity!!! :) And About SILCHAR  :'(.....i`m missing it like any thing.here at pune i could not find any silcharities...nijer jaegar lok nai, boro kharap lage..nijar bhasaye kotha koite pari na,boro afsos hoi..so i keep calling my parents...i really feel Nostalgic!! :-[ and the thought that vacations are near overwhelm me..i go crazy really..  :D Silchar's the Best Place On Earth!! :D Nowhere else can i feel at-home other than really being at home in silchar. Viva-La-Silchar!! ;D and my fellow silcharities, bondhura plz tumra initiative niya rastha ghat ektu thik koro na..boro kosto hoi silcharer rasta dekhle..ami oto durr thika other than pleading u ar kichue korte partam na..do it!! do it !! ;) My Message :- "we are the future and ours is the future...make silchar a better place, spread the smile and may it persists!! a beautiful mind like urs can make silchar a wonderful abode."  :) :) To The Youth : " almost anything u do will seem insignificant but it is very important that u do it. u must be the change u want to see in the world." and remember, " world stands to let pass the man who knows where he's going."  ;) dats all from me now.... signing off jayasmita dutta :D NRS (non resident silcharite) [/quote]awesome thought dear....you know i also am having a pertinent attempt to systemize chaotic emergence of scalar emotional debri bourne out of temporary disconnection of interactive visual field.....in short...missing u...sorry !!! ???     JO Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 11/24/04 at 15:18:23 »    Please Mail me with news of Silchar NIIT REC MED COl GC COLL Please I do not have any friend or Rel in Silchar at present Anamika_Joy2003@yahoo.com     sahana Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/07/04 at 20:02:51 »    Ki ta re ba ? Sylheti girls ketut kotha kaole ki hoibo buddhi kintu phata phati?     lisa Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/07/04 at 22:33:29 »    doraitham kene baaaa tumithain kita paiso amrare haa kali jeta issa ota mathrai nani. kam nai to ou ono aiia gorar gas katirai nani?  ........hahahahhah     jheemlee Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/09/04 at 17:47:38 »    Hi jo!...tumi ki pochondo koro ...kelu kothabola meye..? naa sylhety kotha bola meye..?     kasturi Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/14/04 at 12:58:26 »    hi  how r u ?hope everything is fine n going smooth.i m fine .                                           bye     Jo Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/14/04 at 15:07:37 »    Hi jheemlee This is Joy here (Jo) I like everything to talk in kelu and sylethi.My cousin brother talk in sylethi and my cousin sister they will talk in kelu and my family it is allmost the mixture of sylethi and kelu.  Now a days i am not talking with anybody because i donot have any bengoli friends here.  Only, when phone calls come than only i talk in bengoli language otherwise english and hindi Now tell me you are talking in which language sylethi or kelu You r from which place of Sil What you r doing Any job or studing Really i am missing each and every corner of silchar and kxj Thanks to give me the reply Your everloving Joy     Nita Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/14/04 at 19:24:39 »    hi everybody how r ya.... accha what hell is kelu.... can anyone tell me plzzzz     panu kaku Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/14/04 at 23:19:13 »    kelu- kolketar ALU ;D     silchoror bubai Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/15/04 at 15:41:43 »    rajasree,thike koiso,sob to aar ek nai,tumaar moto maiya aar to paoya kothin. itar lagyai to kelor oto chahida bazaro. :P idendity re hide korar ligya oto chulkani kene hoy.aamra sob bangali,aar baanglari hoito oto upobhasa aache.te kelu koi aar noyakhali koi aar syleti-i koi bangali bangali-i thakmu. eetar lighya joy bangla,joi syleti. :D     Jo Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/15/04 at 16:19:42 »    Hi Nita Kelu and Selathi is allmost same.  For my opinion main thing is to tell whatever in our heart.  Tell in any language if it is kelu or sylathi anything.  You people are thinking to talk sylethi or kelu but you see my condition only once or twice in a week i am talking with my parents in bengoli language when they called up me.  I want to talk but no body is here in bangalore who is my bengoli friend.  So it is your good luck u r talking in the language of bengoli whatever it may be sylethi or kelu and you are in the so beautiful town Silchar Missing everything     Jo Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/15/04 at 16:25:43 »    Hi jheemlee Where are you? There is no reply from you.     hariyeeee Jaiiiiiiiiii Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/15/04 at 23:01:14 »    Jo bhai tumar dukkho dekhiya amar mone bhishon koshto hor re ba.... Tumar kuno bondhu nai ni????BTM aai jao re baa tumar kelu silu dalu falu shob bhashai matai dimu.. Tuar jibone aar kuno dukhho thakto nai re baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ;D     payalia Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/16/04 at 00:57:05 »    Hi neone interested in havig shidol plz contact me in HYD ICFAI I cook shidol every sunday.na aaile eeeeeeeeeeeektaaaaaaaaaaaaa thappor marmu shouvik dhar plz aaio kintu tumi.                 pp     di Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/16/04 at 16:55:52 »    HI     jheemlee Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/16/04 at 19:07:48 »    Hi Jo :) :) soory aamar reply dite ektu deri holo... kintu aami vabte parini je tumi aamake likhbe....thanx  ;) silchar e aashole aamar reltv..ra chorano...... tai tumi bolo.. tumar family ki silchar e naa onno kothao.... aaccha!! ekta kothar jobab debe?? ::) ::)sotti e ki shudhu meyeraai prefer to speak kelu????sylheti chhelera bujhi kore naa :-/!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! plss likhte rehena...my friend.... ;)     jheemlee Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/16/04 at 19:13:56 »    welldone!!!di... :D :D tumi monehocche karur monei dukkho dite chaichho naa.. naaki kichui bujhte parchona ??? ???     byangoshantan Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/16/04 at 21:56:59 »    Jhilimili amaro kelu bolte bishon balo lage amar shateo bondhutto koro an filij filij filij... iti byangoshantan     Jo Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/17/04 at 15:31:08 »    Hi  jheemlee How you write bengoli to english it is really to good. I can read half an hour your message after that i am able to understand.  So nice. After somedays i will also try.  Do you know one thing daily i am opening this site.  In our office 24 hour internat connection is there so when my work has finished then i open that site.  From where u r opening this site? There is so chill in Bangalore now.  What about Silchar. My parents are in Karimganj.  I did two years DNIIT course in silchar in 1998. Now tell me somthing about you. You did not tell anything.  Today too much work was there from 6 O'clock but now 2 O'clock i am free and i am writing for you.  There is no chunce to come in kxj or Silchar another one year really i am missing each and everything.  Why oneline or twoline you are writing you donthave time to write atleast 100 words.  Sorry may be you are busy. What are you doing now. Please donot mind i always talk more.You people are really lucky because you are staying with your parents and friends. Very few people are lucky in this world among them you are the one parson. Always be happy and keep smiling always remember one thing one friend is there for you near about 4000 km away for you but always praying for your happiness. Thanks to give me the reply.Do you know i have so many friend when i was in kxj college and silchar DNIIT now also i have so many friend but no bengoli friend.  I have friend fromTamilnadu who were working in my office in bangalore they are really too cool but i did not satisfy becuase they are not bengoli or sylethi or kelu from calcutta. Your everloving JO Missing each and everything sylethi kelu everything     jheemlee.. Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/17/04 at 19:13:17 »    HI JO.... tomar reply peye darun lagche.....im so sorry tomake onek shomoy nie aamar kotha gulo porte hocche....aami tomader jokhon 6pmor 6:30 erokom shomoy online hote pari....tumi sil.com er chat rume aashle aamra chat korte pari....aamar khushir jonno je vogobaner kache prarthona korecho tar jonne oneeeek dhonnobad....kintu jano ki aamio aamar ma-babar shathe nei...ora to onek dure chole gechen....but thanx a lot friend....u take care...nd lookafter urself.....ok JO :).tumi aamake jekono shomoy likhte paro....valo theko .... your...friend jheemlee     Sukant Basak Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/17/04 at 20:57:34 »    Let's face it. Our girls dont like our boys. They feel that they are vulgar in everything looks attitude language, you name it! Well, Syllehti girls are very unsure of themelves and they have been doing it to upgrade them. While show off they fall into lot of traps especailly with Kelu girls company and give out everything to non syllehti/non bengali guys. Infact syllehti girls have shown very fallen character outside silchar especially at UK, US and even at Bangalore and Delhi. I know a lot of them doing all sort of rubbish. beetr we guys become better to accomodate them and control their intellectual thirst. you can chat with me on my yahoo msn if you wish. Sukant :-[     JOer BHAI Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/17/04 at 22:25:06 »    jheemlee meri imli amar shathe deki tumi kota bolo nago filij filij bolo na.... JO bhai atleast silchar.com e to banglat mato re ba....tumar english e to shakespearer o second heart attack hoi jaibo... Jheemlee meri imli plz mere ku fone kar na re ..meri rani!!     Jo Guest Re: Why sylheti girls prefer to speak kelu ?   «on: 12/18/04 at 14:59:27 »    Hi jheemlee You r always writing in converting form sometime please write in english also.  Please do not feel you are without parents wherever they are their prayer is always with you.  You are staying with whom? Are you studing or any job.  You did not tell anything till now.  I am waiting for your reply. Jheemlee did you know one thing some people are writing unwanted thing in this site why i do not know? Please give your email ID because i want to send you some new year wishes.  Please do not mind. Otherwise you will think any other way to send you a my wishes.  Remember onething always be happy and keep smiling always.  Any problem tell me i will try to solve.  God is with you always.  How you write the message about your parents when i was reading i did not stop my tears.  Please God is with you always. Now tell me do you like pink color why i will tell later. Jheemlee, again you are writing one or two line why you donot have time.  Please write more.  Today i saw another parson was writing some unwanted thing by your name i do not know why this people are writing like this i felt very bad.  That's why give your ID or think any otherway to give your ID without posting your ID in this site. Why i am telling u understood because if any other will do same unwanted thing means its look bad.  Please keep smiling always.  Remember one parson will happy if you are happy. Your everloving Jo Missing Everything     Jo