Plz solve my problem




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lover007
lover007

Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/13/05 at 06:42:10 »
  

I have a problem and this is a personal problem and all your suggestion would be of great help to me. My girlfriend is accusing me of certain things which I haven't done. She did this because she believed someone who never wanted our relation to work out. And now she is not talking to me. What do I do to get her back because I am crazy about her and cannot live. I really don't know what to do.

Plz help me out. I am in real distress.
 
 
Count_Dracula
Count_Dracula

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/13/05 at 12:17:33 »
  

You have your liberty to opt for any of the following solutions

1.  Hunt for the telephone number of  your earlier girl friend
2.  Get your blood thoroughly changed. I might help you free of cost.

[B]Oh! Me![/B]
 
 
synclaire_beauty
synclaire_beauty

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/16/05 at 00:44:22 »
  

Darculaa a bit confused with your ideas
Why do you want him to fetch his earlier  GF's telephone number?
Trying out the Bollywood filmi ishtyle formula-  Envy

and regarding the blood transfer, quick question
Do   you match the Rh/blood gr or is it randomised blind folded operation..........
Asking coz u said its freeee ;D
 
 
debasish_ch
debasish_ch

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/16/05 at 09:41:23 »
  

Dracula, oops, Count Dracula-y abaar kobe thaki Rh/Blood grp milaiya rakta khawa shuru korla? Taain to hoila amrar sadarghater babhon rar moto... jeta dakkhina-i deo, shobtai "brahmanaya namah".

Tobe Count-er favourite blood group kita jaano ni? B+ (Be Positive).
 
 
i_am_amnesiac
i_am_amnesiac

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/16/05 at 18:03:04 »
  

Ishhhhh! Choooo Bad. I feel pity for you lover007. If you are really serious in solving the problem, then get a hold on your life and get urself a new girl friend. After all, there's no point in hanging to a girl who believes in an outsider than her boyfriend.

Lastly, pls. change ur ID. U don't deserve to use 007.
 
 
mon_amar
mon_amar

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/16/05 at 23:22:53 »
  

Mr Lover Bond!! Its bad...what I would suggest you if you really think you have 007 quality then let your brain rule your heart for a while and think what actually went wrong.
If you know yourself and you girlfriend(less probable) then decide upon the points you never agreed and try to work on it. Chalk out a plan.

All the best :D
 
 
synclaire_beauty
synclaire_beauty

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/17/05 at 04:17:22 »
  


[quote author=mon_amar link=board=0011&num=1118617930&start=0#5 date=06/16/05 at 23:22:53]
If you know yourself and you girlfriend(less probable) then decide upon the points you never agreed and try to work on it. Chalk out a plan.

All the best :D
[/quote]

Mon amar sounds like a good counselor but am still stuck in [b]chalking out a plan[/b] for the last threee yrs and still working hard on it ;D

Does it really work ???
 
 
TaarCheera
TaarCheera

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/17/05 at 12:21:49 »
  

007, sidha sidhi kotha " poti to poti, nahi to rakhi "

Satte pe satte er gaanta suncho to..

"Jhukake sar ko pucho
Madam, How do u do..
Job woh puche How do u do
bolo i like u..
......
......
gar woh kore tumko pasand
to woh sharmayegi
tob samjho yeh machli
jhal me faas jayegi..
....
....
aacha bhabi agar woh nahi sharnayee to,
huh..aare pagal, buddu woh agar nahi sharnayee
to koyee aaur sharmayegee

aaisa kya....hna..

ha haaaaa

:) TC
 
 
mon_amar
mon_amar

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/17/05 at 15:59:19 »
  

thank you Taarchheera, you got my point. :)

Pyaar kiya to manana ana chahiya yaar!! Chlaking out a plan means let the person know how much you love. :D
 
 
Keats
Keats

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/17/05 at 22:33:05 »
  

So easy to say!  >:( >:( But difficult to follow. Can someone tell me why do girls think that no one understands them? Why the hell do they have to feel that they have been wronged.


And madam mon_aamar! How many girls do you know who would actually patch up because they love? Lol! Bola to jai onek kothai!
 
 
kigoobe
kigoobe

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/17/05 at 23:35:18 »
  

Keats, I think the main problem here is that we men and women think differently and even speak in different languages. What I mean is that by a same sentence, a man and an woman can mean totally different things making it tougher to understand each other often ... hence if they tell that we don't understand them, they are not totally wrong.

To give u an example, the pronounciation 'Goo' means 'taste' in french, and u know what does it mean in Sylheti. Man and woman speak often in this way. Infact, unlike men, women often have a deeper and different meaning then what they tells.

A simple sentence like 'Why don't u never listen to me ?' may mean 'Why r u looking at the TV when I am speaking to u' or 'I want u give more importance to what I tell u', etc ... well, I'm not an expert, but u can read books like Juhn Gray &/or Alan Pease &  Barbara Pease series, etc.

I think a nice example is - more a man feel himself closer to somebody or a group, louder he laugh, when he needs to. For the women, it is the contrary.
 
 
Keats
Keats

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/18/05 at 19:00:31 »
  

Merci da de Saurav, mais si les femmes pensent du point de vue des hommes et vice versa, la situation serait beaucoup moins chaotique. Après que tous nous soient différents et la différence est ce qui attire. Merci Sauravda, d'ailleurs, espèrent que mon Français est lisible. :) :) :)  
 
Keshto
Keshto

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/18/05 at 23:09:49 »
  

[B]Hehek......[/B]

Keats Saab ko jyada chad gayela......FEEREE mein meela hoga...
 
 
Keats
Keats

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/19/05 at 00:02:43 »
  

Aaj itna nahin meikhane mein....kabhi jitni hum chor diya karte the peymane mein.  
 
kigoobe
kigoobe

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/19/05 at 01:39:28 »
  

[quote]Merci da de Saurav, mais si les femmes pensent du point de vue des hommes et vice versa, la situation serait beaucoup moins chaotique. Après que tous nous soient différents et la différence est ce qui attire. Merci Sauravda, d'ailleurs, espèrent que mon Français est lisible.    [/quote]
Keats bhai ... tumi Forashi sikhlai kan thone ba ? Arunachal prodesh-o manush je French mate ita to jantam na !!!
 
 
lover007
lover007

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/19/05 at 01:59:56 »
  

The main thing is that none of you have understood my problem. well let me open up things for you people so that you can suggest me something this time peoperly. If I wasen't serious about her then would  have asked you people for your suggestion ? The thing is that we were really serious about each other but the thing is that her parents had fixed up her marraige with someone else coz they didn't know about us going around. After that she fought back against her family and told them about me. After this she thought that I was two timing her but that is cleared off but she thinks that she is not able to trust me and so if she cannot trust me to that extent where a girl should trust the guy whom she wants to marry, then there is no margin for marrying. Anywayz she has at the moment accepted being my friend but the main thing is that we were never friends. But now when we are talking to each other, though we speak like friends but still there is a lot of concern for each other and she dors not hesitate to call me even at 3o' colck at night if she has any problem.  
 
mon_amar
mon_amar

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/19/05 at 02:08:57 »
  


[quote author=kigoobe link=board=0011&num=1118617930&start=0#14 date=06/19/05 at 01:39:28]

Keats bhai ... tumi Forashi sikhlai kan thone ba ? Arunachal prodesh-o manush je French mate ita to jantam na !!!
[/quote]


He is Keats after all!!! I must say...we have got more people now to bank upon in silchar.com :D
Kigoobe Dada...I got to know more about you incidentally ....really it was nice knowing about you.
 
 
kigoobe
kigoobe

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/19/05 at 02:36:04 »
  


[quote]~mon amour~[/quote] Tumio to dekhi Forashi lekho  ;D ;D Keats ekla nai ...
[quote]Kigoobe Dada...I got to know more about you incidentally .... really it was nice knowing about you [/quote] Tx Mon .. thats very nice of u ... kintu ita to ekta 'heyali' oi gelo ... bujlam na ...
 
 
Keats
Keats

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/19/05 at 05:16:18 »
  

Hey aamar kintu heyali korar kono icchha asil na. Please forgive me if that was offensive.  
 
mon_amar
mon_amar

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/19/05 at 13:44:24 »
  

Heyali ta ki ami ki koria janlam Saurabh da-r bepare sheita ni?  ???
Mohaadda member-rar thekiya, bas. :)

ekhon kintu we should come back to our lover007's problem...he would be angry that we are not taking the problem seriously....lets try to show him a way out!!

Keu acchho ni ba Loveology-t PhD? :)
 
 
kigoobe
kigoobe

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/19/05 at 15:39:11 »
  

Lover-boy er problem is more samajik and less love-ajik. I think the best solution of this problem is to speak to the girls parents ... u can take the help of ur parents, or some elderly relative or familly friend, who can contact girls party with a marriage proposition ... as it happens in India in case of arranged mariages ... I can't see any other better solution.

And yes, in case u can't manage to marry her ... please please don't disturb the mariage ... for God's sake ...
 
 
lover007
lover007

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/20/05 at 03:11:15 »
  

You people are not able to suggest me anything clearly. Well her parents are aware of me and they have met me also and even my family is aware of her. We are from two different communities. I am Bengali and she is Punjabi. But both the families are ok with it but now we have had a lot of misunderstandings between us and at the moment we are just coming out of the misunderstandings and we are talking very cooly and trying to understand each other coz I had proposed to her over phone and she accepted my proposal over phone itself and then we met each other. Plz help me out now.  
 
Riba
Guest

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/20/05 at 10:34:58 »
  

:) Hi i am not sure if i am tooo late to reply......about sloveing your problam but i really have a good idea look i read a look its call "he's not just that into you" But if a guy read that book they'll also have some idea what a girl want but some how i don't want you to read that book cause i am goona tell you the theme.
Its About moveing with your life just forgot some stupid girls,who don't want to be with some one who only love her soo brothe move on with your life
Bye
 
 
TaarCheera
TaarCheera

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/20/05 at 12:56:11 »
  

lover007 , did u post this kind of stuff in any other thread few months back. Some story in Delhi medical college. Are u doing  your MBBS? Asiti da , can u remember someone had posted and never completed the story??

:) TC
 
 
i_am_amnesiac
i_am_amnesiac

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/20/05 at 14:17:59 »
  

hey lover boy, the problem is that u cant understand the solutions provided to u. look pal, marriage is a compromise. its based on mutual trust, respect, understanding and adjustments. if any of the elements are missing, then it wont be a marriage, it will be titanic disaster.

in ur case, ur better half has lost trust on u even before the marriage. can u imagine what will happen afterwards?

in any case, u seem to be adamant to get married to this gal of urs, instead of paying heed to any good piece of advice. so i wud recommend to premasish to open a distress counselling corner in silchar.com. i am 100% confident that we will see more messages from u on these lines.
 
 
TaarCheera
TaarCheera

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/20/05 at 14:31:07 »
  

Kigoobe da and keats aamio french koite paari...

I. Egalite
II. Avantage


:) TC
 
 
debasish_ch
debasish_ch

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/20/05 at 23:53:05 »
  

Amio ekta paari.
Jeu
 
 
Keshto
Keshto

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/22/05 at 13:01:24 »
  

merekko bhi ayela..lekin woh thoda difficult hain..aap logon ka samajh mein nahi anekka baap..hehek  
 
kigoobe
kigoobe

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 06/23/05 at 05:05:47 »
  

Good TC & Debasish .. tumra dekhi bohubhashi hoiya uthrai ... pororashtro montroke tumrar chakrir lagi chesta korte lago bujiyar ...  ;)

Loverboy ... tumare ekta gaan sunai ... suncho ni ? amar ek kaler khub priyo gaan ...

"Jodi tor dak sune keu na ashe re tobe ekla cholo re.... " koiram je, bhala oibo tumi maiya tare chariyai deo ... understanding jokhon nai, te aar biya koriya sara jibon jhogra koriya katai tai ni ... !!!
 
 
Hakuna Matata
TIMON

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 07/26/05 at 00:47:04 »
  

Pyar Hume kis mor pe le aya~aa :'(
Ke dil kare hai..koi to bataye kya hoga!! :-[
 
 
synclaire_beauty
synclaire_beauty

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 07/26/05 at 02:07:44 »
  

QUE SERA SERA!!!!!!!!!!! :)  
 
i_am_amnesiac
i_am_amnesiac

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 07/26/05 at 11:54:37 »
  

sourav, french language-ey I love You ta kemne koi?  
 
kigoobe
kigoobe

Re: Plz solve my problem !!  
«on: 07/26/05 at 17:44:24 »
  

Je t'aime.

Also see the page -> http://www.canoe.qc.ca/StValentin/je_t_aime.html
 
 
 
 

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