ABOUT OUR IDENTITY




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a_arnie
a_arnie

ABOUT OUR IDENTITY  
«on: 06/22/03 at 16:19:33 »
  

well guys
as i was going through the topic relating to our identity....
I found that the sylheti culture has its own standard  and  way of life....this is a culture where we embrace other cultures with ease and great affection...but when the question of our identity arises What i believe is that we sylhetis are responsible for not putting our culture at large....
This is beacuse we sylhetis still feel inferior to the culture of WEST BENGAL.....we are sylhetis we have a different language which is much easier to the normal KELU language...Our parents are also responsible for this becuase when we were kids our parents taught us the NORMAL KELU language and not the sylheti language....this is one reason why we are not able to create an identity....We are still dependent on the WEST BENGAL CULTURE....More over during any social gathering or any  function we hardly speak in sylheti...beacuse while giving any speech in the public we dont speak in sylheti.....Its true that if we think about our identity  we may relate ourselves as being BANGLADESHIS and all those crap...But being as permanent residents of India...we cannot ever think of such thing...so creating an identity of a culture needs a language which we already have...So i would request each and every sylheti brothers and sisters to converse in sylheti and not in Kelu....more over in an average sylheti family in silchar we would see that children are being forced by their parents to learn RABINDRA SANGEET..My question is why are our parents doing it...
why dont we go for listening sylheti folk geetis.....which will indeed enhance the upliftment of our culture.....well last but not the least...I would blame our parents who dont lay our foundation towards our culture....WE ARE SYLHETIS AND WE ALSO HAVE OUR OWN CHOICE ........AND WHAT I FEEL IS THAT A LANGUAGE IS NEEDED TO CREATE A BASE FOR A CULTURE....beacuse we cannot pick up AK-47 assault rifles and engage ourselves in terrorist activities and fight for a separate state....well thats not our way of living.....we need an identity and people will know us if we prove ourselves through our language......

thank you ......
 
 
shaan
shaan

Re: ABOUT OUR IDENTITY  
«on: 07/27/03 at 18:30:41 »
  

well written....keep it up  
 
a_arnie
a_arnie

Re: ABOUT OUR IDENTITY  
«on: 09/05/03 at 10:10:11 »
  

keu kichu mato na kene...aami khasa maat koi eetar lagiya nii  
 
Shankar_Chakravarti
Shankar_Chakravart

Re: ABOUT OUR IDENTITY  
«on: 10/20/03 at 05:27:24 »
  

My Dear Anirban,  
                         There is already a  8 page running topic on this issue named " Do we have any identity "  startet by a guest " Silchari"  which is replied  116 times and viewed 3203 times as of date. What else you expect from us? Have you yourself gone through all these 116 posting?.( By the way I have not.)
 
 
chiranjiv_dhar
chiranjiv_dhar

Re: ABOUT OUR IDENTITY  
«on: 10/26/03 at 14:20:02 »
  

well....all i know is that when i m asked my identity,,i tell them i straightaway tell them,i m a SYLETI........saves me the nitty gritty of explaing how different our bengali is...how we r not the "misti doi" and "rasogolla types"  
 
 
 

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